Well I started talking to this guy after my "soon to be" boyfriend got transfered to another school and he asked me to be his gurl but i told him that i wanted to take things slow and out of nowhere the guy i was talking to started calling me and started getting serious with me being his girl.I truely do like both of them but i would rather be with the boy who transfered,who is now my boyfriend.I told him about everything while he was gone,I just dont know how to tell boy number two that Iam with some one now.How do I do that with out causing to much pain to him?
2006-06-20 10:05:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh, another teenager asking another relationship question
Just tell him already - deal with it
2006-06-20 10:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to tell him without it causing him pain. i should know because i recently went through this when a girl i like told me shes engaged to be married,which pretty much ripped my heart out but i would rather have her in my life as a friend than not have her in it at all
2006-06-20 17:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell #2 that you are flattered that he is interested in you, but you have are already seeing someone and have been since before you met #2. And then state that your not looking for another relationship right now.
2006-06-20 17:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by creskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with this guy before he gets more attached to you.You can't stop any hurt,if he gets hurt it's part of life that sucks but it happens to us all sometime.Just be nice about it and maybe you can still be friends only.
2006-06-20 17:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you for who you are, he will understand. Just say " I think you're cool and all but, I have a boyf. Sorry. Can we still be friends?"
2006-06-20 17:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ice Skater Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, be honest, don't send him a TXT don't send him an Email, just tell him that you have a boyfriend and your sorry.
2006-06-20 18:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by De amigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say this " look your a great guy but i have somebody else don't take it the wrong way but you know there are other fish in the sea"
2006-06-20 17:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Whatsername 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up and honest. it will be like a band aid when you rip it off...stings for a second then it will be fine.
2006-06-20 17:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him if he really likes you he will be a little hurt but should understand!
2006-06-20 17:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him - I am sure that he will respect your honesty
2006-06-20 17:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by MS L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋