I have a doctor who I think likes me, but I am not sure. He is Italian, cute and handsome, in the 40's but married with 20 and 16 yrs old daughters. He always asks me questions like what I'm going to do on the weekends, if I will go dancing, where I'm going if I dress up nicely, if I like beach, if I ever been in Atlantic City, when is my off day, etc. Sometimes if he asks me and I don't respond he'll tell me that he's talking to me. Sometimes, he'll teases me. I notices that if I don't talk to him or if I ignore him he has this angry or sad looks. When I talk to him or if he sees me his face brightens up. He will be smiling or laughing. When he talks to me his voice change to soft romantic voice. Many times, I notices that he stares at me. I know he is looking at me and I tried not to have an eye contact with him. Everytime I caught him, I just give him a smile and vice versa. But, he never asks me if I want to go out with him or he never open up his feelings toward me.I'm 38.
2006-06-20 09:55:41 · 10 answers · asked by chichai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well maybe he likes you but just wants someone to talk to, to have a friend or a soulmate....maybe he is attracted to you but not in the way to have dates especially not because he got family...but he searches for attention, for reaction....maybe he just wants to see a smile, someone in a good mood, he probably cares for you but in a way as a friend or a little flirt, but not for a relationship
ask him if he wants to hang out with you some time...and wait for his reaction....if he refuses, say it was a joke, because a freind of yours did the same and you just wanted to see what happened :)
please answer what you think!
she is not 16!!! she 38....his daughter is 16
2006-06-20 10:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Josephin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he does like you, but doesn't want to go any further for fear of being caught in an affair. I'd ask him about it and if he denies it, or says you were the one leading him on, tell him to stop, or start seeing another doctor.
It could just be his way of making small talk or being friendly with a patient, but it does sound like he's a little more into it than he should be.
2006-06-20 10:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is married i wouldn't go out with him because that could cause a fight between a husband and a wife and i would find another doctor to go to because if you keep seeing him he might try something on you without your parents in they same room with you sense your only 16 years old.
2006-06-20 10:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by kathy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Offense or anything, but he sounds alot like a stalker unless you go to the doctor's office quite often. You may want to try and avoid him.
2006-06-20 09:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by dplynch1909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aside from the ethical issues involved here and the fact he could lose his license....ask him out...then make sure to find another doctor as you CANNOT date your doctor...too many issues there to even begin to explain
2006-06-20 09:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl..he is too old for you..even though age doesn't matter in love..wake up! that could only mean that either he is fond of you or he sees you as a daughter..don't expect anything else...
2006-06-20 10:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by peek-a-boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just making small talk. or if you seriously think that he might be interested, then go for it. Ask him out.
2006-06-20 09:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by JerseyBleu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"many times i notice that he stares at me"
The magic quote
he likes ya! ^_^ xD when's the wedding!
2006-06-20 10:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by itachi7fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your doctor, he's taken.
2006-06-20 10:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by designer401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they go out there way to please you in every way possible.
2006-06-20 09:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Realist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋