You may view some of the previous answers, but my question is what do I do if I am in love with this man???? Have you ever fell in love with someone yo where just friends with?
2006-06-20 09:53:19 · 16 answers · asked by pecanbrowne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, I have and honestly unless if he shows some interest of being more than just your friends. If he dont leave it alone, you always fall in love more then once and men come a dime a dozen,,you will get over it.. I am sure that if he does not feel the same and he tells you , you are going to get hurt and ur friendship will never be the same and if you and him do something that may lead you to think that he loves and really he dont then you may mess up ur friendship, and im sure that you rather have him as a friend then not have him at all..just move on and find someone else. Trust me it really isnt that hard, though i am sure that you think it is. but i have been there b4 and i thought that i would never love again,,and boy was i oh so wrong.
2006-06-20 10:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by SPANISHTAI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just keep on being really good friends that's one of the best ways I believe is getting a relationship going don't ask him out that's his job. I've liked someone that I was really good friends but I don't think it was love
2006-06-20 17:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the particular individual and his make-up ,however there are two basic answers:
1) Biological:: a man has many sperm cells therefore his drive sexually tells him that he must mate with as many females as possible
2) Psychological: He may feel the need to invalidate his insecurity
by bonding with as many people(male and female) as possible.
hope this helps.
2006-06-20 17:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by chemhead102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have fallen in love with a friend before and he did also and we got married......then divorced. Find out if he loves you also if not then move on.That's all you can do.He wanted something from you, he's a player not committed,or not ready.You need to except him for who he is.
2006-06-20 17:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and the best thing to do is to put the thought of you two being together out your mind because you will wind up getting your feelings hurt.
2006-06-20 16:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is nothing to do if the man does not want you, you con't do anything to change his mind, he may have thought he was going to get something and when he found out he could not get it he didn't want it anymore
2006-06-20 16:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by blueman2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we really can't blame ourselves why sometimes we fell in love with the person who only treats us as a friend...but still,to answer your question..better ask him the things you wanna know..it's the best..just listen to your heart girl and be ready to accept anything you'll hear...
2006-06-20 16:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by peek-a-boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea i liked some one thats my friend but you need to show him that you want him more as a friend cause he will treat you like a friend and not a girlfriend men act like dat sometimes cause some are stupid like that
2006-06-20 17:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and it is extremely hard to seperate yourself from friendship and romance, if he only wants friendship then you have to accept that, if he is leading you on tell him to stop playing games with you. be firm and be honest. everything else will come easy.
2006-06-20 16:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by JerseyBleu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it sucks, there are just in it for sex maybe, or even it there rebound so they can turn to you. Maybe just stop talking to him or tell him how you feel. It's your call
2006-06-20 16:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by edrenil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋