My mother keeps bitchiing about my life, how can i make her understand i don't care?

Question

Im 17 and my mother is drvin me crazy. I drink a lot and most of the times i go back home at 4 or 5 in the morning pissy drunk, sometimes i get out of home in the morning and come back the next day without calling my mom, i left school a year ago because i hate school also i was being expelled for smokin weed in the toilets and slappin teachers. I left a kid blind of one eye because i throwed a stone on his face. I hang around with cocaine addictives and as you can see i can't even write. Well im not an angel but im so tyred of my mother, i wish she could die soon or have a heart attack so i finally get some rest, why can't she understand that i do what i want and NO ONE can tell me what to do? Why she keeps trying? Why did she married my stupid step father who has no sence of fun and all he does is read stupid books and tryes to humilate me with his loving heart?
Im not been rude here just its so hard sometimes to listen to my mam bitchiin about everything. What do you think?

KIK MY ASSS?? *** U I KILL U U BITCHHH ASSSSSSS, SUUK A DIICK

Answer 1

You're a slug. Go to the nearest enlistment office and join the navy or Marines. make something of yourself.

Of course you won't. No free ride there like at home. Next stop is prison. Mark my words.

Answer 2

First of all you are seventeen years old you are not capable of running your own life because if you were, you would see the mistake that you are making. you are projecting an attitude as if this lady owes you something. She does not. Get off the drugs thats the first problem. Stay away from people that are doing the drugs. Have some respect for your self. You may end up in a place that you may not want to be. Drugs is nothing but the voice of the devil calling you to his home. Your mother loves you and feel your pain. stop hurting her. Read some of these answers, people that dont even know you are giving you the answers .take the warning. Go back to school and know that you can recover from this. You are alwayss love if that is what your missing but you cant feel it if you are on drugs or to drunk to know the difference. When in doubt know that God loves you.

Answer 3

Wow, I must say you're a very messed up kid , according to your own words. Have you stopped to think about where you will be in 5 years? 10?

I can understand your mom saying something to you. Sounds like a mom who loves you. Although you make it very hard on her.

Some parents would NOT put up with the behavior that you are showing. It lacks respect for you, and your parents. You have pointed out that you can't spell, so you already lack the knowledge that you should have at age 17.

If I were you, I would sit down and have a long talk with God. Sounds like you need him in your life. The life style you want to lead , won't get you anything but trouble, or an early grave.

This post makes me feel even more proud of my own children. They didn't give me a lot to worry about when they were growing up. {Just to many girls to remember the names of.}

Good luck to you. If you ever get a chance to watch the movie The cross and the switchblade, please do. It is a true story. That movie changed my life when I was about your age. It is an old movie, so you may have to find it on-line.

One thing you have to know, this life style is getting you nowhere. And 18 is as far as your parents have to take care of you.

Lets hope you will be able to find a good paying job, life is not cheap. And I'm sure you will have to move as soon as you hit the adult age of 18!

Answer 4

If I was your mother I'd be that way to!!!

I agree with what she's doing. And It's YOUR LIFE you need to care about it god knows you only got one. You need to care, Your 17 your not even legally aloud to be drinking in most places until 21. And other drugs are Pretty much illegal. Your parents obviously care about you, what parent wouldn't? your lucky that your parents care about you some kids don't have parents that care they just let there kids live on there life the way they want, and a lot of those kids end up how u are. And quitting school?? Where are u even getting money for drugs?! In this economy it's almost impossible to live without a diploma. You Can still go back to school it's not to late. I don't no what got u this way and honestly I am sorry for you. But you have to face facts, It's your Life You need to make the best of it. It's not to late for a simple "I'm sorry" or "I will change by proving it to you" You still have a chance to live your life to the fullest. Don't let it slip away, i'm sorry but your making a terrible mistake.

O by-the-way if you keep going like this let me no how jail turns out.

Answer 5

you know, i would give anything to have my parents back, they both died from cancer, andyea they did ***** me out alot also. But this is ur mom, she knows what ur going through (sometimes) she just wants the best for you. and theing is your 17, she has the right to tell u what to do until u are 18. Once ur 18, try coming home drunk, you might end up over night at the jail because ur a minor drinking, and she may tell u to thank her in the future. Your mom is there to help u along the way. Everyone goes throug it.And what is wrong with a loving heart? Have u tried to read the books he reads to even have a convo with him? Step back and see it from their eyes.

Answer 6

Whoa, what do you mean youre not an angel? You got me.

Hmm maybe your mom does this cause she cares about you and she doesnt want to see her child grow up to be nothing but a druggie on the streets who begs for money. Just save your mom the time and the worrying, if youre not gonna help yourself or go into therapy. Pretty soon youll probably end up dead either from being raped or shot or overdosing.

Answer 7

You need to listen to your mother. Get off the drugs and alcohol.
You have your whole life ahead of you and your are messing it up more than you know. You mother won't shut up because she loves you and doesn't want to see you destroy your life like you are doing. Go back to school, make different friends, get rid of the ones you have, get an education, and straighten up your life.
Be careful what you wish for, you will miss your mother when she's no longer in your life.
Whatever it is in your life that you are mad at, you need to find a way to get over that anger, and destroying your life isn't the way to do it.

Answer 8

Dude, you are a spoiled little punk who really really really needs an *** whipping. You should go to your mother and apologize to her. She's trying to HELP you prepare to live. Sounds to me that you're going to be dead or in prison in a few years, so at least you'll be out of her life. Not sure what she did to deserve a spoiled little S H I T like you...

Oh yes, I forgot. You know everything that was ever written or said. She don't understand anything about anything. She's mean. You are perfect and you dont need any thing. Get the hell out of her house you punk.

Answer 9

Obviously there is something deep inside of you that is making you very unhappy. Do you like the life you are living? How do you see yourself 5 years from now? And people can tell you what to do, they just cant make you. You are very young, naive, disrespectful and have a very , very low self-esteem. You think that causing someone's blindness is cool? That being unruly and disrespectful is a high? You do all this because you are angry , at what I dont know, and it's probable you dont realize why eighther.
You need to become the best person you can, not for your mother or your step-father but for YOURSELF !!!
Treat other people just like you'd like to be treated, and I now you dont like people disrespecting you or hurting you.

About your mother, She is constantly on your back because she wants better for you. She sees how distructive you are being to yourself and your relationship with her. Have you thought about talking to someone you trust about what goes inside of you?
Sometimes just talking to yourself outloud and trying to figure out what bothers you helps. Try to get to the root of the problem, find out why and/or what makes you so angry and try to work at it.

DONT GIVE UP ON YOURSELF, I'M PRETTY SURE WHEN YOU ARE YOURSELF, ASSIDE FROM THE DRINKING AND DRUGS , YOU ARE A WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT PERSON.

Your mother has not given up on you , thats why she nags and nags, give her a break she might not know what else to do.
Sometimes we as parents make mistakes, we are not perfect, but most of the time we speak by expirience.

Your first step is to admit you have a problem and then from there it gets better. Please believe that we all have a reason for being, that makes you a very special person, your job on this earth might be to save someone's life, or to teach someone to love. I trust you will do the best you can. I'm rooting for you.

Answer 10

Listen I'm about to tell you this . Your mother doesn't want to see her Daughter in a mess. Look at your self you hang around people who want to destroy themselves . Just hear me out your mother wants to see a change so give her one . You are not grown yet and she should kick you a** out the house . You scare her when you don't come home and all the other things you do . JUST SHOW HER SOME RESPECT WHILE YOU ARE STILL ALIVE !