1 I am in love with a girl.
2 I am a guy
3 she is two years older than me
4 she is budhist
5 I am christian
6 I have dated her
7 we had broken up
8 we are very good friends
9 we still do stuff togather
10 she does not believe in the concept of love
11 I do belive in love, in fact it's the basis of my religion
I would like to have a closer* relationship with this person
what advice do you give me?
(and yes I've already had the give up... so if that is your advice, please do not post here)
2006-06-20 09:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by The greatest and the best. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also if you need more information please say so. I will answer your questions... just ask
2006-06-20 09:45:13 · update #1
firstly...
give up answers are not worth posting
secondly...
please don't post answers which slant towards conservitave christianity. it's useless to me. being a liberal christian.
thirdly...
on the first answer
"Make her feel and see that love exists. Make her fall head over heels for you so that she can experience the feeling you get when you are in love. Good luck man."
that's great. now then how should I do that?
2006-06-20 09:53:31 · update #2
"First, ask yourself if the age difference and the religion matter to you. If they don't, then it comes down to one problem. Stay good friends with her and show her that you care, and don't lose hope :)
Oh, and btw, Buddhists do believe in love. I have some Buddhist friends... "~~smitten
they don't:
now then any catylistic ideas?
2006-06-20 10:16:31 · update #3
Make her feel and see that love exists. Make her fall head over heels for you so that she can experience the feeling you get when you are in love. Good luck man.
2006-06-20 09:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
First, ask yourself if the age difference and the religion matter to you. If they don't, then it comes down to one problem. Stay good friends with her and show her that you care, and don't lose hope :)
Oh, and btw, Buddhists do believe in love. I have some Buddhist friends...
2006-06-20 10:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible says we are not to be unevenly yoked, beyond that, this woman does not believe in the concept of love so how could she ever make you happy when you have experienced the greatest love of all and she won't share that with you? Be her friend if can and pray that God will change her heart, or yours and bring you a woman who will love both you and the lord.
2006-06-20 09:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to see if your competing beliefs can coexist. If she does not believe in love and you do, the result could be that she never truly loves you, a truly painful option. You also need to know this in case anything happens to make this relationship serious.
2006-06-20 09:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by thechosenoneortwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum appropriate element i'd propose is to communicate with them with out her first- so as that they don't offend her, or be nasty to her. let them understand what Wicca is amazingly about, that it really is were given no longer some thing to do with the devil, etc. you ought to continuously tell them that they ought to believe you and your choose of personality, etc. etc. And at the same time as they are pleased with it, you may introduce her to them, that way it keeps all activities secure. Thats how i'd bypass about it.
2016-10-14 08:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion and politics are topics that should never be discussed when you are trying to court someone. If you dont mention it, then it can't be a problem.
But you are setting yourself up for dissapointment if you expect to want more than she's willing to give.
2006-06-20 09:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a christian i have been taught not to be unequally yoked with someone that believes other than you. i personally don't see how things can work in a relationship if you don't have the same core beliefs.... good luck though.
2006-06-20 09:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by angelcdm228 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋