even though she had a great smile and great attitude,and you got along well
2006-06-20 09:41:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are attracted to her but are just scared of what other people say then it is wrong, you could miss out on so much, if you arent attracted then count yourself lucky to have found a good friend and leave it at that.
2006-06-20 09:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Angelcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love and war. Physical attraction is a key factor in any relationship, despite what people say about it being shallow to judge based on appearance. It is human nature and completely natural to select someone whom you ALSO consider physically attractive.
But here is the important thing to remember. She can always lose weight. A little 'investment' now, may pay dividends later on ... *wink wink* *nudge nudge*
2006-06-20 16:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you just because someone is overweight doesnt mean they are not beautiful it is what is on the inside that counts so if you get along with her and like being with her why not there was a movie ricky lake was in it i forgot the name of it but the good looking guy fell inlove with an overweight girl i think the name of it was baby cakes it was a good movie rent it you will enjoy it cc
2006-06-20 16:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how vain you are. If it would constantly be something that you though of as a negative, then it wouldn't be fair to her to date her. You would see her appearance and not her. We shouldn't be shallow about looks, but we're only human. If it would bother you, then don't date her. Otherwise, looks really aren't important. It is the personality that you truely love.
2006-06-20 16:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Risa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always believe that is what's inside that counts..
You do have to be attractive to the other person for it to physically work..
Don't worry about what others think it's all about how you feel...
Someone will always find something wrong no matter how good you are..
2006-06-20 17:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid of what other people might think? If you like her, go out with her. She could always loose weight. What if she did loose her excess weight, How would you feel about her then? It really should not be a factor.
2006-06-20 16:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by JACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! If u enjoy being around her, weight shld not be an issue. If u chose not to date someone bcuz of her weight, then u r the one who is heavy...in the head. Decide what is right for u, not what is right for everyone else.
2006-06-20 16:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. I am overweight and guys around where I live seem to think that you can date a girl unless she is a size 2...
Ask her out have fun. It is what is on the inside not the outside!
2006-06-20 16:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by lucynlynsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are a shallow, self-centered guy. If you like her, and enjoy her looks, screw everyone else!!
2006-06-20 17:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by bradhartel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-20 16:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋