Im not doing anything but its fun just pickin up chicks at the bar, just to know you can get some if you wanted.
2006-06-20 09:25:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to overcompensate for your incredibly small penis?
2006-06-20 09:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, no it's not. It would be if your girlfriend was in a relationship with you in good faith. But....she isn't. She actually cares nothing for you and will replace you easily if the mood strikes her. You are absolutely not monogamous with her and she has zero loyalty to you.
Under those circumstances, is is appropriate for you to be exclusive with her? Everything out of her mouth having to do with this issue is a manipulative lie. Is it therefore your responsibility to tell her about the other women? No. Truth and monogamy and fair play are for someone who loves you and has your best interests at heart and that absolutely is not your girlfriend (and if, by some miracle, it IS, you should be married).
The best solution is, of course, to be a man. Tell her you are screwing other women and if she doesn't like it that's just tough. Be out in the open with this with all the women in your life. Your success and the quality of your relationships will go up, not down.
2006-06-20 09:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say wrong of you to do b/c what is one of those girls sees you again and you are out with your girl friend and she says so I see you found some one else after you met me at the bar the other night. You will be in so much trouble with your current GF! See will probably think you cheated on her and no matter what you say she probably won't believe you. So I would stop. But It's you life and as ling as you are informed about what you are doing to your self. The risk you are taking then go for it I guess . Good luck!
2006-06-20 09:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really wrong. Not only are you giving half of your area the impression you're available and perhaps a viable piece of dating material, but you're also betraying your girlfriend. Sure, you're not physically cheating, but you are emotionally. You're seeking emotional fulfillment from another source instead of from your girlfriend. It sounds like you have low self-esteem to be doing such a thing. If you want reassurement that you've still got it going on, get it from your girlfriend.
2006-06-20 09:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're doing more than enjoying the scenery at the bars. Going out with the guys and striking up conversation with the ladies is probably OK, even if your lady wouldn't like it, but you said "picking up" girls at the bar. It sounds like if you found a hot enough one, you'd hook up with her, and if that's true, then you're participating in typical bad male behavior that makes ladies mistreat nice guys like me.
Maybe you just need to figure this out, and it's good you're asking about it.
2006-06-20 09:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..i think it is wrong for you to just pick up girls for fun. i mean what would you do if your girlfriend found out..what would you do about it then..it would probably hurt her alot..and she would probably think that she doesn't mean that much to you or that she's not good enough. you should just stop doing it..even if you are just doing it for fun. it could lead to something you just don't want..happening. and if you do want to do that..you should decide if you should be with your g/f or not.
2006-06-20 09:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, why did all the guys answer no and the girls answer yes? That alone should tell you what your girlfriend would think!!! PS If you have a girlfriend, don't you already KNOW you can get some???
2006-06-20 09:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by cooperslassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm. yeah it is wrong. If you really want to know if you can pick up girls to know if you can "get some" whenever you want... dont have a girlfriend. Dont disrespect and hurt someone like that.
2006-06-20 09:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. Just keep in mind your girlfriend could be doing the same thing. Is it wrong for her???? : )
2006-06-20 09:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rhonda L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? Well, I guess it isn't wrong to all other people but in my book I believe it is.. Would you like it if she did that to you-- doubt it..
2006-06-20 09:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not it's perfectly fine unless you get caught
2006-06-20 09:28:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋