Its obvious we still love each other and the person he cheated on me with is a fatal attraction and now he can't get away from her because she is always threating his life. Its a very tough situation for both of us. what should i do?
2006-06-20 09:16:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's largely up to you. If you beleive it was a one time thing and that you can trust him now, and if you still love him then just move forward. With time it should get easier to handle. However if you're not sure if you can trust him or not THAT is a different story! Trust is at the foundation of any good relationship.
2006-06-20 09:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by danl747 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it takes two to cheat and your boyfriend cheated on you and how can you trust him he broke that and it will never be the same again im sure you still love each other but it will always be in the back of your mind and also what has he told this gal there is 2 sides to every story and he probably lied to her and now she is pissed off at him that is why it is so wrong to do this to people because everyone reacts differently and he got a hold of a psyco it sounds like so honey this is his fault so if you plan on staying with him i wish you lots of luck and hopefully nothing bad happens to you but remember you need to have respect for you so go ahead and try to forgive him the first time and see what happens and if it continues get rid of him find someone that wont disrespect you like this would he want you to do it to him
2006-06-20 09:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that she is doing that cause sometimes the guy is the one who really wants them around. Repairing a relationship from someone that has cheated is a challenge. Sometimes it works out ans sometimes it doesn't. First question, why did he cheat in the first place. Second question, what was his excuse for cheating? If he loves you like you say he does Why did he even cheat?
2006-06-20 09:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by dlbaca7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on and find someone better who won't cheat! If he cheated once, he will do it again. Don't get caught up in his silly drama.
2006-06-20 09:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by Fluffy Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to do. The trust is gone and it takes a very long time to earn back. You have to work hard at it evryday.
2006-06-20 09:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, there are plenty of guy out there who aren't going to cheat. Go find one and kick his *** to the curb
2006-06-20 09:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Devilsbane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a boyfriend and he cheated, dump the bum! If it's a marriage then work on saving it which depends on you.
2006-06-20 09:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by easywintoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me u can repair it once somebody cheated he will always cheat OK
2006-06-20 09:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by sassyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋