my ex-boyfriend who is nonchristian...think's i cheat. If i put a bible verse from PETER in my profile, he'll say im cheating cause i put a guy in my profile. If i talk to a guy, he calls me a slut/cheater cause i talked to a guy. Im not a slut, im sexually pure. Im a virgin, waiting for marriage, havn't done anything sexual.
He blames everything on me...what do i say to him, when he calls me a slut/cheater. and says he can get better than me.
Christ has helped me through this, and i love him for everything hes done for me.
Especially all of you all!
2006-06-20 08:59:24 · 18 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
those words are S*L*U*t
2006-06-20 08:59:42 · update #1
I am glad that u say he is your EX. Why then do u care what he thinks about u? Still, you need 2 get him out of your life altogether. When u do get another boyfriend your ex will think that he was right about u that u are a s---. He may even cause conflict with u & your guy. You are being subjected 2 mental abuse that will lower your self-esteem & u need 2 totally reject this guy from your life.
2006-06-20 09:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ethslan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating Non-Christians? You know the Bible tells you not to.
If you are serious about someone, your boyfriend.... then you will not have friends that are male. A female should not have friends of the opposite sex.
God has designed women and men to be attracted to each other...even if they are "just friends". So, your boyfriend really thinks you have cheated becuase you HAVE crossed a line when you talk to other men.
You sound like you are following the world's standards. Read the Bible and live your life according to it.
2006-06-20 16:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Red-dog-luke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lose him RIGHT NOW! The reason he puts you down and calls you names is because he is insecure about himself. In fact, he hates himself and he has every reason in the world to.
I was in an abusive relationship for 4 yrs. I have been out for 2 yrs now and have realized so much.
You are worth so much more than any guy like that can or will ever give you! He tries to tear you down so you don't realize that b/c he knows that you can have anyone that you want.
Leave him now. It will only get worse. Take it from me. There is nothing you can do to change him. Not prayers, not words, not actions, nothing. If you love yourself you will leave.
2006-06-20 16:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your ex-boyfriend then you really shouldn't care what he thinks why is he still in your life? You should stop talking to him completely and surround yourself with people who care about you and are not going to insult you in any way. If he's your ex-boyfriend like you say then you should be able to date other people if you want to that wouldn't be cheating you're not tied down to anyone. Sounds like you need to make that clear to him.
2006-06-20 16:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by honey27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
If anyone doesn't respect your beliefs, whatever they are, you should not remain in their company. Friend, boyfriend, family member, if they do not respect you and accept you and your beliefs, they are not deserving of your time or attention.
You want to know what to say to him when he calls you such things?
"Bye"
Edit:
Wait, this is an ex-boyfriend? In that case, why are you still spending time with the loser?
2006-06-20 16:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. why do you want to put up with him? it's not healthy to be in a relationship when there is no trust. I was with someone like that..all i did was try to figure out how to prove my love for him. we fought all the time. he even hit me a couple of times. I still stayed with him and yet he was still convinced that i was sleeping around...slowly my love for him started to fade. trust is definately a MUST in a relationship!
2006-06-20 16:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He is not ready for a serious relationship. And commom would you really want to marry this guy? If he is this needy and unsure of himself now. Think how much worse it would probably get once you're married.
2006-06-20 16:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by **me** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is an obsive ****** ditch the zero and get with the hero
2006-06-20 16:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break it off with this guy. He is not a nice person and is calling you names because he is insecure with himself and wants you to feel bad about yourself. Leave him. He is trouble. God wouldnt want you to put yourself in this type of unsafe and unhealthy environment.
2006-06-20 16:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect a non-believer to know what you believe in.
How much do you love yourself, it sounds like this guy is verbally abusive. What can you have in common with him?
2006-06-20 16:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋