What do you do if there is this girl who you want to go out with but youv'e never had the guts to ask her out

Question

I really want to go out with her, and i think she'd say yes, but she is moving before school starts up again to a different state? What should I do? Ask her out and go out with here until she leaves, or just let her go?

Answer 1

Ask her out! have fun while she's here.....you'll wish you had after she's gone, and maybe she's thinking the same thing!

Answer 2

Well, long distance is a tough gig to manage, especially if you're still in school. You'll have so much growing and learning to do and it's only fair to both of you to keep your options open. That said, what's the harm of getting a little practice by asking her? If she says yes, you can spend some time with her, being careful not to get too attached and perhaps gain a new pen pal when she moves to this new state. If she says no, hey, at least you tried. You'll never know if you don't give it a shot. And incidentally, by practice, I mean the act of asking a woman out and taking her for a date. It will make all future dates and pursuits of women that much easier having practiced that with someone else. And if she turns out to be mean, at least she's moving! Good luck!

Answer 3

well I told this girl I had a crush on her in front of the whole classsroom when she was leaving out of state. when everyone was saying their goodbyes and when
i got to say mine I was really embarrassed but now I know I was never going to see her again took some guts but I did it. so It left just like that it's pretty funny now that I think about it. But I would at least tell her I have crush on her before she leaves that should give you more guts because your never going to see her ever again probably.
but never give up on this relationship just because she lives so far away the movie notebook is a good example too bye

Answer 4

How about stop acting like your promised the next day and make the most out of today,life is too short and you can do anything, so ask her out and go out and what happens, happens!I believe you will get the date, 24hrs in a day don't waste a second.

Answer 5

it might be a little less painful for yourself, if you just let her go but ask her for her new number and give her yours so you guys can still talk. e-mail each other and send letters. dont lose touch cause you never know what could happen in the future.

hopefully ive been at least a lil helpful

Aaron's Angel

Answer 6

If you think she will say yes, then suck it up and ask her before you miss your opportunity. If you are unsure, you could throw a cookout before she leaves and invite her. If she comes, shes into you. Then spend that time getting to know her and plan for a second date, no matter where she is. Good Luck!

Answer 7

tell her what you feel and have a special night with her before she leaves. if its meant to be then both of you will keep in contact and then maybe itll turn out to be a relationship :) give it a try. whats the worst that can happen her say no. just try dont be scared.

Answer 8

Just go ask her! You never know maybe she always wanted to go out with you, but she's never actually had the guts too. So if you ask her she'll probably like you even more because you asked her. If you don't ask who knows wat you are going to miss.

Answer 9

Just be friends with her and keep in contact with her. It doesnt make any sense to start something and then will have to end it in a couple of months.

Answer 10

If you truely love this girl you will ask her out and keep going out with her even though she's in another state...but that's only if you really really love her! Ask her out!!!