he gets really upset when i hang out with my other guyfriends and STRONGLY prefers i dont unless hes there....is it just me or is he a little clingy. should i keep hangin out with my guy friends and risk my relationship or just go with the flow
2006-06-20 08:54:25 · 6 answers · asked by mollie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, sounds like he's jealous and that he doesn't trust you. I say still hang out with your guy friends. Otherwise, if you give in, what's next? Can't hang out with your girlfriends?
He's got to get over it.
2006-06-20 09:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always a very gray area. First off a guy needs to trust his girl no matter what or she will eventually dump him. However, it is normal to be jealous and worried. A lot of this depends upon how secure you make him feel in your relationship, and what kind of guy friends your hanging around with and what is going on when you are with them. If these are guys who flirt with you and doing inappropriate stuff when your around then you need to stop hanging out with them. You should only be hanging out with guys who are really just friends and not hoping for something more.
2006-06-20 16:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always go with the flow...if he gets too clingy, get rid of him...but if you are dating him but keeping a few guys on the hook just in case and seeing them every once in a while then dump him too.
2006-06-20 16:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, i was in that position just the other day. my girlfriend has mainly guy friends and i didnt approve of that. the reason being is that one of her guy friends might hit on her while im not around or she might be meeting up with him usually making the excuse of him being a friend to her. i had to take the hard pill on accepting that she is truthful and honest. we talked about it. i dont wanna exclude her from her friends but i dont wanna lose her to someone as well. hes a bit overprotectice and that shows he cares for you and he would fight for you. so follow your heart and you would know what to do when the time comes....
2006-06-20 16:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by ~jervi mervi~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you the same thing I told my 16 year old daughter earlier this year when her boyfriend was jealous of her best friend that's a boy...
It's OK to have guy friends and it's OK to hang out with them.
Do NOT compromise who you are for someone else.
It's ok to compromise on issues....but don't change who you are and don't LET him change you!
Jealousy only multiplies.
2006-06-20 16:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hrmmm u could maybe if u tell him face to face if he is just over protective if he really like u he would back of if he just protecting u because your the cute 1 in skool or work or anywhere maybe he just in u for the looks
2006-06-20 16:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by julian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋