I told him if he looks thats fine but why make it all obvious by making sounds. Then he tells me all the women that flirt with him on his job and how they look and how pretty they are and how bad they want him. See alot of guys flirt with me but i dont go into elaborate details about how they look because i think thats immature in my opinion. I remember this puerto rican guy was staring at me i just happened to look back up at him. My boyfriend went ballistic he told me that if i wanted he could arrange for me and the guy to go out on a date i was mortified. When we go out in public he makes his personal business to make sure i know that he is looking at a another woman because he always looks back at me to c what i am going to say. But god forbid i look at another man. I cant this anymore I mean. I know men and women are not blind they are going to c somebody attractive and look but why make it so obivious.
2006-06-20 08:51:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 35 and i am 23
2006-06-20 08:57:40 · update #1
your boyfriend sounds like he suffers from self esteem problems he is just letting you know that other women find him attractive and he wants to see your reaction to see if you get jealous to make sure that you love him and that you will fight to keep him so to speak he needs to know that he is the only one for you and that other women can look but not touch that you would be very hurt if that were to happen he has to be the top of the totum pole in your life these kind of people can take alot of work for the relationship to have any kind of stability think twice if you realy want that kind of relationship with him.
2006-06-20 09:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by shelly f 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Older guys think that because they are older they are "in charge". If you want to get back some control in your relationship, let him know that his behavior will not be tolerated and that he may find himself "35 and with no girlfriend". I'm sure his behavior will straighten up quickly.
It actually sounds like the guy listened to much of that Rolling Stones song "Under my Thumb". You can do alot better in the boyfriend department, so I'd seriously consider giving him the boot!!
2006-06-20 09:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS A SICK RELATIONSHIP. YOU NEED TO move on. He doesn't care about you. wake up AND MOVE ON. He's an asshole with no respect. Why torture yourself???? Are you that ***** desparate for a piece of dic? Girl leave him like in no calls no explanation that is what i do to assess like him. i dont call him take the voice mail off my phone tell anyone that answers the phone you are not home job just tell him not to call that you cant have personal calls and if he doesnt listen let someone get the calls. he doesn't deserve an explanation. WAKE UP OR ELSE YOU WILL LOOK LIKE A STUPID DESPERATE BICH!
2006-06-20 08:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by renosgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a screwed up relationship. If he is constantly going on about how other girls are hitting on him...you need to look at why he's doing it. Does it piss you off to the point that you get mad at him and fight, or does he do it because he's trying to tear you down to eventually start abusing you in other ways. Be careful, in any relationship if you or your partner are not there to be happy and make the other happy then you and your partner are in the wrong place.
2006-06-20 08:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's childish and trying to get a rise out of you. he thinks by telling you how "bad" other women want him, he's going to get you to treat him like the king he isn't. i had a relationship just like the one you are in and it caused so much emotional damage, i lost 30 pounds and didn't want to go do anything unless it made my man happy in fear of him leaving me. it got so bad, he hit a man in a K-Mart for looking at me. then he went on to tell me that guy was just wondering what a guy like him was doing with a girl like me. once i got rid of him, i got my life back.
2006-06-20 08:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't just childish, it is disrespectful. If I acted that way I would hope my wife would kick my *** to the curb and divorce me. You should have taken him up on his offer to set you up with the other guy and then dumped him. This guy doesn't deserve you. I have no doubt you could find yourself a man who will love you and respect you if you just dump this jerk.
2006-06-20 08:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither one of you is mature enough to handle a committed relationship. Stay away from men until you're ready for marriage.
2006-06-20 08:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u need to do is sit him down and talk to him why he is actin so got damn foolish in public. If he doesnt do anything for u in ur lyfe child, then u need to just forget abot him. Expecially if he makes ur lyfe a living hell.
2006-06-20 08:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS VERY INMATURE AND ITS NOT LIKE YOUR GONNA MARRY HIM SO WHY DO ALL THIS IN VAIN??? DOESNT MAKE SINCE WHY ALL THESE YOUNG BUKS AND YOUNG BUCKETTES SEEM THEY HAVE TO BE ON EVERY THING THAT MOVES...WAIT UNTIL YOUR OUT OF COLLEGE BEFORE WORRING ABOUT THIS KIND OF THING...WAIT TO FIND A GOD FEARING MAN AND YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THESE PROBLEMS AGAIN...TRUST ME...I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT
2006-06-20 08:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation very often, he looks all the time but when i do it then it is a big deal, finally u just gotta give up, i would dump his *** cuz it only gets worse
2006-06-20 08:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋