last week me and my boyfriend made plans for today to hang out all day and we were gonna go out and have fun. but he got his work schedule over the weekend and found out he had to work today from 10 this morning to 8 at night. but i still thought he would come over afterwards and we would be able to hang out for a little bit.
but last night he calls and tells me after work his cousin is picking him up and they're gonna hang out. i got really mad because i feel like he's just blowing me off or something. today is about the only time we have this week to see each other. am i overreacting? i don't wanna be mad at him.. but i am. and we had this huge fight about it last night. i don't know what to do.
2006-06-20 08:24:27 · 8 answers · asked by tsvolleystarr13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also said that he hasn't hung out with his cousin in a long time and they're really good friends. and his work is like 45 minutes away. but why can't he just come to my house and not hang out with his cousin? we've been together for over a year and a half.
2006-06-20 08:35:37 · update #1
I guess he couldn't control his work schedule, but yeah, he could have told his cousin he had plans with you later. He blew you off for a night out with the boys. Be mad, but get over it. Then get even! Have a night with your girls - & make sure he knows it. Sounds a bit childish, I know, but sometimes that's the only thing guys understand. When all the fireworks have cleared out, let him know, calmly, that when the two of you make plans you'd appreciate it if he would honor his prior obligation to you. If he can't handle that, dump him & find someone more mature. Good luck hun!
2006-06-20 08:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i see why you are getting bad, but you have to understand he might be thinking of you as well. I mean since he gets off at 8pm, it might take him 10 minutes to get out and into his car or bus and take another 45 minute to an hour to get to your place. It would be fare to said it is almost 9pm. of course this is all bs talking and he doesn't want to wake you up or keep you from resting, but the point is having an 10 hour shift is hard work and he need to relax. giving him time and tell him how you feel about him having energy to go out and not coming over. remember if he still at your place till 11pm, you just fall a sleep, he still need to go home. so that is like 12am, plus he needs to shower and stuff. maybe your parent don't want him over at this hour.
2006-06-20 08:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend. If his cousin is only in town for a short while then you should probably be understanding. However, if his cousin is always around and he is blowing you off then you apparently are not that high on his list of priorities and you should move on.
2006-06-20 08:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by aj_mase56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't care what he's doing, as long as he's doing something.
Hard to tell how people feel sometimes. I would get a "friend" on the side just incase he is blowing you off you have something to fall back on.
2006-06-20 08:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that was the only time you had to spend with him, he's not that into you. But if there are plenty of opportunities, you are over-reacting
2006-06-20 08:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he blowing you off honey there's a strong wind coming and it's got your name all over it
2006-06-20 08:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think youy are not his top priority, he needs to decide whats first in his life.
2006-06-20 08:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my gf wanted to see me that bad! Honestly, it sounds like he doesn't like you much.
2006-06-20 08:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Duke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋