The last guy I was with was lame in bed. I don't want to waste any more time on a guy only to find out later on that he doesn't like to eat pu$$y.
2006-06-20 08:22:19 · 29 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wrong and dangerous.
Please be careful
2006-06-20 08:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥--->{Shauntee}<---♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it's like test driving a car before you buy it. Of course you want to see how it handles, if it fits right, or has anything out of place. The problem here is that you really do need to be careful in how you do this and that you may develop a reputation if you don't keep it a little discreet. Very few guys will turn downa girl that is sexualluy open minded as it sounds you are. However like I said you do need to be a little picky if not careful in how you do this ~ Happy Hunting
2006-06-20 15:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart of knowing who a guy is and what he's about is talking. Ask him questions. Spend time with him. Is that an arcahic idea? You will find out in the "getting to know you" phase if he is the right guy for you. Get to know his intellect first. Perhaps he does give oral and he's a real jerk or you can't hold a conversation with. If you sell yourself short making sex the priority before you get to know a guy, you will always be disappointed.
You need to love yourself. When loving yourself, you will make more loving decisions. Sleeping with multiple sex partners is dangerous and quite frankly pointless if you don't love any of these guys. Be safe.
2006-06-20 15:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said, you are not looking for a boyfriend. You're looking for a good sex partner. Why not search the personal ads for a noncommital, no strings attached bed partner? That way you can discuss your sexual preferrences without a relationship getting in the way.
BTW, you may want to have your hormonal level of estrogen checked. It's very unusual for a female to be more focused on sexual satisfaction than quality of a relationship. You may have too high of a testosterone level. Good luck.
2006-06-20 15:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... that's not exactly how you pick a boyfriend. I wouldn't suggest it, just because a guy sleeps with you doesn't mean he wants to be your boyfriend. This type of plan can back fire rather easily, what if it gets around you're taking 'auditions', you'll get alot of guys and they won't be keepers. Plus just because a guy can 'put it on you' doesn't mean he's boyfriend material, he could be abusive or unfaithful.
I would suggest you pick boyfriends the normal way, dating and getting to know them, then make decision about sexual prefromance. Because if you truly like someone you don't base the relationship on sex itself.
2006-06-20 15:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Weda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a big risk, but jeez, ain't it fun? Biggest risk is becoming known as a cheap trick - a "ho". Then there's the increased risk of STD. Y'don't really need that, honey. Look, before you get naked and horizontal, ASK the dude if he is willing to give you "special treatment" (you know what I mean). If he says no, you move on and you have avoided the risk of STD and the reputation of being a cheap ho-ho-Ho!
2006-06-20 15:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your a girl who knows what she wants in life. Good for you. I see your point, don't waste time with anyone who can't go down town on you.
I love the taste of a women who's clean. Nothing like it.
2006-06-20 15:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. It's smart. How prevelant is divorce in America...almost 70%. Sexual intimacy is important, although not everything.
2006-06-20 15:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Leigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa girl, you need to slow down and look at the heart
2006-06-20 15:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Duke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. Just make sure you protect yourself and that you will still feel good about yourself. Have fun and remember that just cause he doesn't know how don't mean we can't train them.
2006-06-20 15:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kat9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care about being a sl^t, go for it! Please do the resto f the world a favor, thoug. USE A CONDOM!! EVERY TIME!
'cause, hon, you do not sound mature enough to have a baby or keep from spreading diseases...
2006-06-20 15:29:38 · answer #11 · answered by annebananalolitachiquita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋