2006-06-20 08:16:42 · 39 answers · asked by Kadianne M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Be honest and tell your husband. As soon as the child is born get a Paternity tests.
2006-06-20 08:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by houstonmom77064 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice but to be honest.I dont want to judge you,however you were extremely selfish to have had sex with a man other than your husband without protection.You could have bought a disease home to him.Now you are pregnant and its only fair your husband know he may not be the childs father.Your baby deserves to know the truth later in life as well.Good Luck!!
2006-06-20 08:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in my opnion, that it does suck that u are having a baby by another man! But do talk to him. U might work things out. Ur husband may take reponsablitity even if this isnt his child. It might be his?! U just never know what will happen if u dont communicate with ur husband. that is Y u really had the affair, lost of communication to satisfy ur needs. JUST TALK THINGS OUT!!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-20 10:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by csabrinam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do, tell your husband and let him divorce you. Then support the child on your own cause there's no way that a man who is sleeping with a married woman is going to stick around. Why do you think that men sleep with married women? So that they don't have to have a commitment. Get a clue.
2006-06-22 04:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunatly you may have to pay the consequences. You are going to have to make a decision now that only you can make. Do not be surprised if your husband wants nothing to do with you when he finds out and you do need to tell him if you don't, you need to divorce him and get out of that marriage. Time to talk to both of them to figure out what the next step is. I hope the guy your having sex with that isn't your husband is someone who you can rely on.
2006-06-20 08:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by renegadescwgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to be honest with your husband and tell him you were unfaithful. You also need to be honest with yourself and figure out why you cheated so you can talk to your husband and tell him the truth. As other have said, be prepared for divorce regardless of the outcome of paternity. Can you say for sure who the father of the child is? If not you do need to have a paternity test done, your husband deserves to know that much. I don't know your situation and I don't feel I should judge you but I do think you need to re-evaluate your vows-they are sacred and you broke them. Maybe you weren't ready for marriage or maybe not with who you chose but YOU chose to marry him and now YOU have cheated so it's up to you to make the right decisions.
2006-06-20 08:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by blondieblue98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband more the man you are cheating with will understand. If this is the case, you and the man should talk whether or not you should get abortion. If he is married, he will understand. If you don't love your husband as much anymore, get a divorce before it's too late.
2006-06-20 08:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband and hope for the best. Whatever you do, don't ingore the situation and let your husband believe that this is his child. Years from now, if/when he finds out, he'll be so hurt and angry. It's a sh!tty thing to do to him. You're in the wrong here (cheating) and you should come clean as soon as possible.
2006-06-20 15:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confess everything to your husband. Both he and your lover need to know about the baby and paternity needs to be established. Then have a sit down and discuss all the options. It may seem like that will be imposible, and at first, it may be. Other than living the rest of your life as a lie, you have no other choice. A lie only leads to another lie ...
2006-06-20 08:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Hestia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the thing you can do if you want to save your marriage is get an abortion. I don't like that idea, but what choices do you have?
You committed adultery and have to live with it. Sorry to say. But either you tell your husband and get into a nasty legal battle, which of course, you will lose. Or hide it from him and it will haunt you for the rest of your life.
And if you hide it from him, DO NOT get in your head that you "got away with it" and do it again and again. Then, I'd have to say I told you so.
2006-06-20 08:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋