i recently had sex with this girl ive known sence september we had sex with out protection and i came inside her, the feeling was new i did not know i was cuming until it was over. she went and got tested and cam out negetive but ehwn we did it again the sam thing happend again but after that i havent seen her sence that night. do u think she is pregnant and ran away an dont want to tell me the truth or did her parents sent her away. im kind of scared cuz im 19 and im not ready to have kids yet
2006-06-20 08:14:41 · 17 answers · asked by Ghetto SuperStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she told me she was on the shot so i did it w/o a condom but some girls lie about thse things
2006-06-20 08:31:34 · update #1
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS A BIRTH-CONTROL BEING ACURATE. I KNOW THERE'S NOTHING A100% ACURATE WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING SEX YOU JUST GOT TO MAKE A MATURE AND RESPONSIBLE CHOICE.THE BEST PROTECTION IS NOT HAVING SEX AT ALL OR AT LEAST YOUR PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY READY. AS FAR AS THE YOUNG LADY SHE'S PROBABLY SCARED LIKE YOU ARE GIVE HER SOME TIME TO COME AROUND. IF NOT YOU CALL OR GO TO HER TO FONG OUT WHAT'S GOING ON WITH THAT WHAT A REAL MAN WOULD DO
2006-06-20 08:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, you know when you don't use protection, you run the risk of STDs or pregnancy. The shots, pills and patches are pretty effective about 95% or so. So there might be a good chance that you are not a daddy. But for future reference if you are going to engage always use protection. Don't depend on the girl. You are the only one you can trust.
2006-06-20 15:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not 100% reliable, you always need a back up plan in order.
2 of my friends got pregnant on while birth control pills/patches
Let this be a lesson for next time, because if you're not ready, thats when its most likely to happen if you don't take precaution.
2006-06-20 15:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by jodi E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accuracy depends if you are using the contraceptive correctly and consistently. Even if she is using contraceptives correctly, without using a condom, you are still 100% at risk for getting a STD.
There are many possibilities as to why you haven't heard from this girl. Seems to me that you should learn about what you are doing before you get yourself into trouble!
2006-06-20 15:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what protection you use, it is not deffinate. The best protection is to say No! If you are gonna have sex, use a condom. Do you know if she had a std or hiv? A quick nut is not worth your life! As far as pregnancy, you made your bed not to be rude. Good luck either way.
2006-06-20 15:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by tdtgh26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every thing is about 99% that it will work. but there is always a chance that there will be a mishap. such as with the pills she missed one or isnt on time with her pills everyday. that sort of thing..
as with her running away and not telling you... now a days she would probably tell you.. cause she may want you to stick with her or have you pay child support give her a call or something.. stop by her house one of these days
2006-06-20 15:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by sarahpainter19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those methods of birth control are 99% effective if used right. Start using condoms so you don't have to worry about this again. And man, you need to masturbate more often if you didn't know you were cumming... sheesh that's a new one...
2006-06-20 15:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should try a bit harder to see her, you know where she lives, where she goes to school or college, go there and ask her what is up? If she has vanished, find her parents phone number and call and tell them you are a friend and have lost contact with her, and ask them if she is OK or if they can have her contact you and leave your phone number.
2006-06-20 15:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno i have been on bc pills for 3 yrs now and had plenty of sex and he doesnt use a condom and i have never even had a pregnancy scare..it depends if she was on the pill she cud be safe and okay and not pregnant but that also depends on if she took it on time and she kept up with it..u have to take it at the same time everyday to be safe.
2006-06-20 15:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably about 99% but sometimes people get that 1% of bad luck! i no someone that happened to them a few days ago,. well aparently if she ran away u wont have to worry about it until she wants child support or if she will ever want child support
2006-06-20 15:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kaylee N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋