the reason I ask is were getting married and I want to know if there is something im doing wrong or she just doesnt like sex.( im not bad in bed and im very well.....well you get the picture.)
so ladies give me some answers
2006-06-20 08:11:22 · 6 answers · asked by BH11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to go the extra mile.... not just expect sex because she is your fiance and/or wife or girlfriend.... Sometimes a woman wants to feel the same way after being married or engaged as she did when you were FIRST trying to get it.... you "wooed" and "wowed" her then... now the only question is, "what have u done for her lately"?
It has nothing to do with how well endowed you are or are not... if she is happy with you during the day, she will make you happy during the night....
So compliment her, help her out and not just when she asks you to, but do it all on your own. Just decide to do something that you KNOW needs to be done with out provocation from her... Buy her something pretty even if its as simple as a flower... (and i do mean 1 flower)... just because and for no other reason... show appreciation for and towards her and she will fold into you like warm butter on hot bread...
2006-06-20 08:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by hazelbrwneyz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has a unique idea about what/how often is healthy. If you are getting married, you should have a conversation about this (and a load of other things). If you cannot talk to her now, what do you think it is going to be like later???
You are about to commit! Commit to the idea of staying married before you pay for the ceremony!
Good luck!
2006-06-20 08:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, because I 'try' to be not eager about sex or let guys I know that I am rather addicted to it. But of course they find out later, then they worry that I just want them for sex or that if they are away I'll need to find it somewhere else. Geez.
2006-06-20 08:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by ruletheworld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a way to "get" your attention. If she doesn't like it now, no way is it going to get better! I have some male friends who are lucky to have sex with their wives once a month.
2006-06-20 08:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by ceffedupwithwhiners 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows i rarely have sex in my relationship...and were both suppose have high sex drive..phff thas a big thumbs down
2006-06-20 08:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u rich? maybe she is just marrying u for money
2006-06-20 08:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋