I cant believe Im asking this question (coz its something a kid would ask), but I would apprecciate your help?

Question

I am 19 and I really fell in love with a 24 year old. He looks like a model, has tons of friends, dates top chicks and is a promoter in a club.
I, on the other hand, am not that good looking and am quite shy. Me and him spoke once in a shop where he worked, he asked my number but never called but we sometimes see each other on the street, where he always gives me looks but doesnt go up to me unless I take the initiative.
I feel like he is THE ONE but maybe I feel like it because he is extremely charismatic.

My question is, what do I do? Forget about him, wait and provoke him to make the first move or what??? Coz I am not sure I can attract him and I dont wanna screw everything up by trying too early or doing the wrong things.

THANK YOU!!!

Answer 1

Maybe he is just as shy or possibily insecure and doesn't want to get shot down either. Take the initiative, make the first move.

Answer 2

Yeah this is something a kid would ask. He has your number and never called. CLUE #1. Should be all you needed.
He sees you but doesn't say Hi. I mean, sure he'll look at you, but people can't help but look at a car accident or a midget on the street. CLUE #2. Is that how you want "The one" to treat you? Like you are invisibile? He's not into you. Move on. You can't screw everything up because there is nothing to screw up- he's not into you now and he won't be after you call him, chase him, throw yourself on him- tomorrow, a year from tomorrow, yesterday.... MOVE ON! FORGET ABOUT HIM!

Answer 3

You think he is the one at 19 yrs of age? A small boy was asked this question...Would you like 4 dimes today or a dollar next week? He quickly took the dimes...the next week came and he regreted not waiting. So wait for your dollar, find a nice man that does call you, and does notice you and WANTS to be around you, someone with a good soild future, i.e. well educated, good job...etc. I would rather date a cute lady with a nice head on her shoulders than a complete hottie that is clueless...hope this helps!

Answer 4

Well, I'd say first of all that you prolly arent' in love because you haven't spent any real time with him, so you don't know if you really have things in common.
Also, there is a chemical that our brains make when we first meet someone, if we are attracted to them, that feels like love. It's very powerful, but after about 6 months, it fades away.
Perhaps you could just continue to be a freind to him and see what develops.

Answer 5

Well if you gave him your number and he hasn't called then he probably isn't as interested in you as you want him to be.
Just continue being nice to him, but don't see desperate and pretty much try to forget about him.
You like him because he sounds hot, but that doesn't mean he's the one and that doesn't mean you guys are going to date. If he lost your number by chance, then he would just ask for it again if he wanted it...

Answer 6

IF he was interested in you...you would know by now. If he asked for your number but never called and he doesn't talk to you unless you talk first...he's just being polite.

Answer 7

Yes, u may talk to him as friends as normal while still continue look for other candidate which maybe not handsome but treat u well...

Answer 8

if he didnt call u nd he doesnt take the chance to talk to u nd u onli do it he aint worth it a guy who is interested in u would take the time to get to noe u

Answer 9

unless you want to end up screwing him there IS NO RELATIONSHIP and if you do and stop or talk about commitment then he will come up with a reason to leave. he just wants to get his d i c k wet.

Answer 10

IT'S JUST LUST CAUSE HE HOT AND HE LOOKS AT YOU LIKE THAT. SOUNDS LIKE HE'S A PLAYER, SAVE YOUR HEART THE DRAMA AND FORGET THIS GUY.
LOOKS AREN'T EVERYTHING, FIND SOMEONE YOU HAVE STUFF IN COMMON WITH AND YOU'LL FIND HAPPINESS.