he's cheated on me before and yet i'm stuck and keep going back because if i'm away from him for more than an hour i feel like my world is gonna come crashing down. I think i really love him and we haven't even had sex yet, he's showed me he care's in other way's. Anyway what should i do?
2006-06-20 08:07:41 · 12 answers · asked by Inu'sgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
run like the wind
he's a cheater
2006-06-20 08:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart but bear in mind, you are probably going back b/c there is a comfort level there between the two of you and that may be why you keep going back. Try to take some time and analyze how you really REALLY feel about him before you make a decision. Good luck!
2006-06-20 15:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, and just exactly why do you think that he is your boyfriend? OK, definition of a REAL boyfriend.
1. He likes you, you like him.
2. You may or may not have had sex, doesn't matter, unless he is having sex with OTHER GIRLS.
3. You are commited to each other and that means you just want to see esach other in that intimate way.
So how is he your boyfriend, It sounds like you are holding out and he just wants sex from whoever will give it to him. Why give it to him, hes already shown that he dont really care that much about you, he just wants sex.
2006-06-20 15:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he cheated once, you can forgive him but twice is already a pattern -- a pattern that says "Run, now!"
Don't think that you can change him, you cannot! I don't think you can teach old dogs new tricks!
Love requires risk and you may have to pay the price!
2006-06-20 15:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER forget why he became an ex!!! People do change,but not overnight.It sounds like you already know the answer to your question.Just remember this......"if you always do ,what you always did,you'll always get what you always got.Make him earn a second chance,if you decide to take him back.And don't make the same mistakes over and over again.
2006-06-20 15:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if the jerk cheated on u tell him go screw a feacken donkey!
OR
think about what he did and ask ur self: dose he really deserve to be with you after what he did? will i be able to trust him? and will he do it once again?
all i got to say persional dont go back with him. once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-06-20 15:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's always room for 2nd chances. but if he does it again i wouldnt take him back girl thier is to many men out here to stop at 1 that is treating you bad. good luck in ur relationship if u take him back.
2006-06-20 15:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him go back , but know this he probably will cheat again, he can't seem to help it. good luck
2006-06-20 15:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you forgive him, your have to forget the past and live with a new relationship with him. If you can't. Don consider it. Let your yes mean yes and you no, no.
2006-06-20 15:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by designer401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE CHEATS, SO I THINK U SHUD TAKE HIM BAK
gd luck , bless u
2006-06-20 15:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋