I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 17.....I'm 19 now & I've only had two real boyfriends in my whole life. I don't think I'm ugly at all..I'm normal and a lot of guys think I'm attractive. So why can't I get a boyfriend? I want one. Then again, every time I start to like a guy and think I want him to be my boyfriend.....I end up feeling repulsed by them after a week or so. I'm not lesbian, I know that much:) Does anyone else feel this way? I know it sounds stupid...but Im serious.
2006-06-20 07:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle Bell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are u even rushing things...u are still so young. take your time and find out what you really wnat in life first
2006-06-20 08:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine_12 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and my last serious relationship ended when I was 17. I pretty much have the same thing happen (guy gets lame after a week)because I want my next relationship to be a good one and I'm not going to settle for whatever comes along. It's not that your ugly or anything, you just have a right to be picky.
2006-06-20 14:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. You are young and still have time to find that perfect mate. I think that you may just be afraid of rejection or losing another boyfriend to what ever it was that you lost the other two. Take you time and things will work out.
2006-06-20 14:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by pggcgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're still in love with one of your ex? You're just picky...and sounds like you get sick of guys fast. Just give it more time...you haven't found the one that makes you feel good inside, whether your together or not. You're only 19...you've got so much time to learn about guys and get to know a lot.
2006-06-20 14:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are young. It's hard to find a serious boyfriend at that age. Hell, it's hard for me now and I'm 27!!
I wouldn't get self-consious and think that it's you. You probably just haven't found the right one yet.
Focus on yourself and learning who you really are instead of searching for the right man. You have your whole life ahead of you.
2006-06-20 14:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nofin wrong with you, you just havent met a guy that you really like, someone that suites your taste in every way. I've bin there n am still searching...tho I ocassionally decide to stubburnly d8 a gurl, I end up pullin out to her hurt, and its depressing...coz sumtimes, dey're really nice.
2006-06-20 14:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Concoction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're young and haven't figured out just what you want in a mate yet...just take your time you'll soon find someone that you really like and that really likes you...and most importantly...there is nothing wrong with you...we're all different and want different things in life...so take your time and do what you do...
2006-06-20 14:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by bravo95165 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel scared of loving that person again.
2006-06-20 14:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple your not ready yet its normal so don't worry about it and ignore the first guy that answered
2006-06-20 14:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't alone...
nothing is wrong with you,your just not fully ready for commitment
2006-06-20 14:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by insight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋