im 17 an find it hard chattin 2 lads how can i be more chatty an flirty. i always get lads chat me up at work but i neva no how 2 react or wot 2 say except smile!!
2006-06-20 07:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by ♥abi♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
iv neva even kissed a lad dats gota b weird!!
2006-06-20 07:44:46 · update #1
My advice Whatever you do dont ever meet anybody online, No matter what, Your better off being single. Take 1 day at a time.
I didnt have my first kiss til i was 19
2006-06-20 07:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by poop45543 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋
HELL NO! You're only 17, there's plenty of time to get a guy.
If you want to be chatty and flirty, just relax and be yourself. Guys come to you for a reason, right......? Just chill out. One day, everything will just click into place and you'll be flirting like something you've never seen before.
BTW, smiling is a good place to start, but try not to make it a nervous smile, it kinda puts guys off.....
2006-06-21 01:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by HiFi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that's not weird at all, relax! Plenty of people your age and older haven't had a boy/girlfriend yet - seems normal to me. It'll happen in its own good time, there is no minimum age or anything. Enjoy it when it happens, but don't be in too much of a rush to do stuff or end up with a bloke just for the sake of it.
2006-06-20 07:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by sallycapers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all i had my first kiss at 17 (even though it was horrible & i didnt even like him) you'll be fine as you get older your confidence will grow around men and they'll all be dropping at your feet!!
I used to think exactly like you - but oh how the years have changed me!! Beating them off with a stick now and know how to handle them!
Good luck and enjoy!! x
2006-06-20 07:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mel.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engineer things that encourage touching ie asking for help to play pool even if you at a pool wizz(leave that for games of stip or winner say do pool).
Guys like lively girls ie in the moshpit, snowboarding, surfing etc.
Skimpier clothes if you can get the confidence to wear them... Pole dance lessons should boost your confidence and moves.
Turn the chat more sexual.
Get more close on dance floors.
Learn to drop and do the splits and compete in dance offs.
Get good at wrestling say wirth a martial arts and challenge guys to boys vs girls... (lots of handling).
If in London can suggest op places to go. in the UK let us know... You dont have to be more accurate then that... Just know good places to pull.
Take part in wet t shirt and other sexual party games.
Getting involved in a water fight in a thin white top would help.
Ie you got it. you are at your peak, flant it.,
Tight tops, show cleavage., hotpants shorts, mini skirts, but get some confidence to go with it so you in control...(think biker babe that can flaunt it but takes no crap)
Serious the sexy dancing thing can help...
Get involved in jelly wrestling... (good charity raiser) or idea for a party.
Heard you can get brail t shirts... offer reading lessons
Get the idea?
2006-06-20 07:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time some 1 chats u up just go 4 a drink or some thing with them its good practice for when your older your only 17 dont worry
2006-06-20 07:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by hollie k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smiling is enough once you get a little older. Watch out for the smooth talkers who are happy to do all the hard work in return for a dip in the honey pot :-)
2006-06-20 09:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just shy.Don't worry when someone comes along who you feel a connection with then you will be able to chat and flirt with him.Your only 17 there plenty of time yet.
2006-06-20 08:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by kelly w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and pretend that your talking to one of your girl friends. I was in that situation once but I've had a few boyfriends now.
2006-06-20 07:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its normal, i didnt have my first proper boyfriend till i was about 20. Your just a late starter, you'll be fine.
2006-06-20 07:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋