i have this ex bf and we dated in 2001 then he had to move away and all i got was lies from his family then?

Question

two years later i was at his cousins and he was talking to him, i got his number and address and i went to visit him, he was excited to see me after all these years. he's going to a all girl's college next year and everytime i called him he'd talk for 5 or 10 mins then he'd say he had to go, but iam to shy to tell him how i honestly feel about him yet i don't want to loose him because i feel that he is the love of my life. it's just that i don't what to do about it and i need some help in trying to figure out what to do. and i don't know what to tell people when they ask me if were still together. plus we live about 60 or 70 miles away and the college is another state away. i really love him.....so can someone please help me.

but yet everytime i see him, he takes the time to stop and casully say hello and talks to me. and he could have hard feelings about me dating his younger brother but it was only a week before i met him and his brothers way of breaking up w/me was selling me for a penny and "justin" the guy i love so called "bought me" during the whole time that he was away he'd always ask my older half-sister where i was and how i was doing and she'd always lie to him and his cousin always tried to get me to forget about him and date him.then to make matters all worse he was sick on christmas of 01 and i was on vacation but when i got back and found out that he had been sick for two weeks w/the stomach virus and his mom hadn't been there to take care of him. i was pissed off at her. and to top that my dad "slept" with his mother and neither of them told him, so i had to tell him then it mad him mad at me but only for awhile. then we made it all up. when he was gone i cried myself to sleep everynight.

Answer 1

Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Let him know that he is still in your heart and want to make sure that you're in his.

Tell him everything, don't let him get off the phone without saying it, and if you get his voice mail leave it on there.

Answer 2

sounds like he's not too intrested in you. sorry.