What should I do if my boyfriend does not want to tell his baby mama he has a girlfriend. sunday he was talking to her from on my phone and he said he was calling from his "homies" phone. I thought that was really disrespectful towards me.
2006-06-20 07:17:32 · 18 answers · asked by starcookie3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is disrespectful. Why are you with him if he has a baby mama anyway? You are in for trouble, have seen it too many times with people - find a guy who has no baggage. It is NOT worth it in the long run.
2006-06-20 07:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How some distance long is she? no longer that it truly concerns, what does is which you have been waiting to spend something of your life with somebody after in user-friendly terms 6 months and now are crying disenchanted considering the fact which you have found out some thing approximately him that doesn't extra healthful into your plans. in case you have been so waiting to make an entire life dedication to the guy, you ought to be waiting to stand by making use of your guy with the aid of the drama of dealing with the mummy of his baby. (And who's to assert there'll be drama as long as he continues to be cutting-edge on his baby help. Or extra clever yet, why no longer positioned off the marriage and get to nicely known your significant different..and his previous...a sprint extra clever. Now back to how some distance alongside is she? Did she basically confront him that she's 6, 7, or 8 months pregnant or approximately to drop any day now or has he known for a at the same time as and basically now getting around to telling you? the former potential that there may be different "little" issues your destiny husband is conserving from you! As for the toddler mama drama...have your fiance touch an lawyer to establish first paternity, then if needed his parental rights, to establish visitation and baby help money. For you, in case you agree directly to flow forward with the marriage, do no longer permit your income be lined along with his - save separate financial corporation money owed, report married submitting separate tax varieties, yet be arranged to assist him along with his toddler.
2016-10-31 04:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to be the next Baby Mama Drama dump the guy. If he is not loyal, honest and respectful to you or her now what do you think it will be like as time goes on?
2006-06-20 07:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm sounds like he is still dealing with her!!!! You need to leave his *** alone, becasue 1 he is not man enough to tell her what is going on with you and him, not that its her business but she should atleast know that he does have a girlfriend!!!! And if he doesn't want to tell her cuz she is crazy get the hell outta dodge cuz you don't wanna end up in the middle of a crazy situation later on. Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeit u looking at a big mess so you should leave it now before things even get to that!
2006-06-20 07:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get mad at me but... leave this manboy alone.. most single men are still kids themselves... they don't grow up until they have kids of their own.. typically.. they grow up WITH the kids..
anyway, this guy obviously has some growing up to do.
SO ~ Find someone who will treat you with respect. You dont need this "Baby Mama Drama" in your life. Best Wishes to You.
2006-06-20 07:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by urbanbutterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't tell her or don't want to tell her he has age chances are there still doing there thing trust me i know i had the same prob comes to find out he was still messing with her and yes that was disrespectful you should have a talk with him and ask him whats up if he wants to be with you or her and do NOT to disrespect you like that
2006-06-20 07:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is more going on than that. I have a baby momma and she has known about my girlfriend since the beginning. That is because I had nothing to hide!
2006-06-20 07:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good sign! Him not telling her about you may mean there is still something going on. Confront him about this and if he doesn't want to tell her, then you need to move on!
2006-06-20 07:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trip. i do the same thing. see, when girls find out that their ex is dating someone else, they all of the sudden want him back. also, they start to cause a lot of drama for no reason. that's why it's easier to just let it be for now, until you meet her one day.
2006-06-20 07:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm darlin' and I'm saying this nicely as possible - he doesn't respect you...Why doesn't he want to tell his baby's momma? Well probably because he still wants to be able to be "WITH" her if you know what I'm saying. So, leave, get out...don't be with someone who doesn't respect you.
2006-06-20 07:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋