If he has girl friends and /or he is nice to a girl should I be nice to them too and trust him or should I try to get us both away from her?
2006-06-20 07:15:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he has known them longer than you, be nice also.
2006-06-20 07:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can tell he's only bieng nice then for about as long as is takes hi and bye be nice but if he's flirting with her get him away as soon as possible all he's asking for is drama if he's doing it right in front of you or maybe he really is just trying to be nice and thats why you've got to learn the difference between them when he's doing it before you get mad.
Good luck
Love Anna
2006-06-20 14:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most of the others......Trust unless you have had reason not to. If that is the case dont waste any more of your precious time on a loser. If there is no reason not to trust then you know it is your own insecurities which must be worked on. In that case be friendly, otherwise you end up looking like the bad guy. Which will be a no win situation. All guys like a secure woman. Not one to be taken advantage of but sure of herself!
2006-06-20 14:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by momkmmt4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweet tina you have the same name as me (tina) and I used to have a problem like yours. My problem stood out, and caused problems in my relationship. You know how some girls hate being friends with other girls because of drama? Yea same case with guys sometimes. Talk to your boyfriend about it, just you're his girlfriend he picked to go out with you for a reason, not his other friends that just happen to be females. Let him be a nice guy, you can usually tell when a girl wants to start making him cheat on you, and if it becomes noticable like that, then take action. If it never becomes noticable then just leave the situation alone. Their just friends, and rememeber don't get paranoid about the situation by trying to watch his female friends every move, it will stand out like a sore thumb.
2006-06-20 14:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhmm...well if he is trustworthy and you know he wont mess around then be nice. but not fake nice...just polite I guess. My b/f has a friend that he has known since h/s and I tend to get a lil mad when he hangs with her but nothing I cause a fight over. I have to step back and be calm cause I know there is no chance that he would get with her....Its not that I dont trust my guy..its that I dont trust girls! I say hi to her but im not over the top nice...just be polite...but if she crosses the line then knock her out!
2006-06-20 14:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your bf will cheat on you? Sounds like you have trust issues. If any of those girls make a move, your bf should be able to SAY NO. If he can't resist then you may have a problem.
There is no law that says you have to TRUST anyone, so if you are not comfortable doing it then don't. If you are comfortable then trust them.
2006-06-20 14:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a healthy relationship, you've got to trust him. Take an introspective look at what may be causing your jealousy issues. If she's his friend, why wouldn't you want to treat her well?
Even if you think she's pursuing him, you should still conduct yourself in a respectable manner.
On a personal note: Keep your chin up, have confidence in yourself, and work through your jealousy issues.
2006-06-20 14:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by wuzzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're insecure or don't trust him, then you shouldn't be in a relationship. if he's done something that would make you not trust him, then why are you with him? otherwise, what do you have to worry about. are you going to make youself miserable all the time thinking that he's cheating on you? you should talk to him and see what is up with those other girls.
2006-06-20 14:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try to get him away from every girl you are sure to get him away from one, and thats you. If you can't trust him then let him go. Or eventually, he'll let you go. And by the way, if you say "I trust him. I just don't trust the girl" unless you think she is going to rape him, then what you mean is "I think she'll try something and he might go for it" which translates to "I don't trust him."
2006-06-20 14:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's known her longer AND there's nothing but friendship between them, let it be.
If you know somethings up and he won't do anything about it, talk to the invasive person yourself.
Personally, if my girl doesn't trust me I'm leaving.
2006-06-20 14:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think so because if you really trust him you would know he wouldn't do that. But if he ahas cheated b4 then get those girls the hell away from, just because thats his punishment
2006-06-20 14:18:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋