we talk every nite. and get on great. we both have airport close to us, and can travel most weekends to see eachother. she has children with her. and i have the same setup. it would be hard to give my business just to move up there at this moment in time. but is it to far apart to have a relationship?
2006-06-20 06:52:55 · 13 answers · asked by irishken@btinternet.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not. im in a long distance relationship myself. you just have to talk things out. ask her if shes willing to do and be faithful. if you two feel that you should be together than take the chance. then maybe after a while you can move with her or vice versa.
2006-06-20 06:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but do slow things down. A holiday romance can with care, turn into something long term. Distance is not at all the issue. How well you actually know eachother is! SLOW DOWN! From your question it seems the expectation is for you to move? Sod your business then and actually the welfare of the children must be your priority! You are hung up on distance. If you lived next door the issues would be the same. Sorry to be blunt but I have been there!
2006-06-20 07:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take things slowly at first to get realistic and practical about the distance, esp if children are involved. If you both have the same attitudes to the relationship and are faithful, then its worth a shot! However, be wary that they may be a different person when they are in their home environment and vice versa......
2006-06-20 13:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by pittabread 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, long distance relationships are never a good thing. If you think you have a future with this person then close the gap. If they are not worth the effort then you have your answer about your future with this person.
2006-06-20 06:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by The Professor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the Pacific NW, and my boyfriend is East Coast. We get together when we can, and are now trying to decide where we want to live together. It can work. We're still going strong. Good luck to you.
2006-06-20 06:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm joining the Dalek force. Will you promise to not harm cats and ice cream cones?
2016-05-20 05:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-06-20 06:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother in law and sister in law have just celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary and theirs was a holiday romance.
Good Luck!
2006-06-20 07:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by angelcake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds are staked against it. But give it a crack, who knows.
2006-06-20 07:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for about 1 month before you both realize that you no longer have anything to speak about, then it dies.
2006-06-20 07:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by OliveTheCat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋