O.k.I have this friend Stacie.She had a boyfriend.She broke up with 'em.Now she likes some other guy,but he doesnot really like her and people told her that he has a g/f/.Well she likes him a lot and she told me that she'll get him anyways i mean is that really possible?i'm not trying to be mean but HE DOESNOT LIKE HER AT ALL............but she can not understand that.She tries to wear all those hot outfits near him but it doesnot work..................She told me that she'll keep trying.......I told her that he does not like her but she told me that she'll go for it.I mean he has a girlfriend and that girl is my friend and she's very nice and many guys think that she's very pretty.WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE HER UNDERSTAND???????????
2006-06-20 06:37:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stacie is on the rebound.
a)She dumped a guy thinking that she can do better. That may be true, but you can't force love.
b)She dumped a guy and now regrets it. She wants to prove that she's still desirable by enticing this other guy into a relationship. Again, you can't force love.
Stacie needs to see that having a guy has no bearing on her value as a human being. Continuing to try to "get" this new guy will only bring frustration to her, and piss him off (or his actual g/f.... maybe a cat fight in the future?).
Watch "My Best Friend's Wedding"... Remember the "chase" scene-- Julia Roberts' character was chasing the guy, and he was chasing his bride. Nobody was chasing Julia R's character... Nobody is chasing Stacie.... She needs to grow up and let go. She needs to discover the joy of letting a guy chase her... *evil laugh*
2006-06-20 06:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing.
First of all, it's none of your business and secondly, you sound as if you really don't like this girl (and why you would remain friends with someone like that is beyond me), so just think of how happy you'll be when all her sh *t blows up in her face.
Sometimes it's safer to watch impending disaster from a safe distance, less you be sprayed with sh *t yourself.
2006-06-20 13:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by ·!¦[·ÐarrÁ·]¦!· 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, when she gets turned down by the guy, you'll see a sad little girl. Stay clear of the problem because if his girlfriend finds out, there could be trouble and you don't want to find yourself in the middle !!!!
2006-06-20 13:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes u just have to let pple learn 4rm their own mistakes. My friend just left engineering 2 be in the airforce coz they promised him a couple of thousands. I tried all ways possible to convince him otherwise but he's just too hard headed. I was frustrated bt realised i had 2 let him learn 4rm his own mistake. Mayb its not a mistake, bt he was destined 2 be in the airforce.
U just gotta let life be Girl!
2006-06-20 13:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done what a friend should do. But your friend needs to learn from her mistakes. Thats the best way for her. So leave her be. Let her do as she pleases. If it bothers you, keep away when she is at it.
2006-06-20 13:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap her in the face and tell her that he dose not like her at all and if that doesn't work then go somewere just u and her and explain to her real carefully that he has a g/f and he doesn't like her and move on to someone else. ok
2006-06-20 13:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by devilgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that he doesnt like her and if she doesnt want to hear it then let her fall on her face. she'll learn all by of herself.
2006-06-20 13:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Penny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell u r friend boy friend to talk to Staci and to tell her the true that he don't like her is better if she hear from him
2006-06-20 13:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonimus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to quiet being full of herself and find a different guy
2006-06-20 13:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap her and say "He does not like you at all" really slowly. and explain to her that if she had him she wouldnt like some obessed girl to be chasing after him...
2006-06-20 13:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Silk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋