WHY iS IT THAT?

Question

why is it that when i get a boyfriend who starts being realy nice to me and would do anything for me i start to not like him any more alot of girls would like a guy like that but they just make me not want 2 be around them i dont like those realy realy nice guys they anoy me

Answer 1

You probably love the chase...a lot of times guys have a little flare of meanness when flirting. Once you've got them you have nothing more to go after, they have different flirting tactics and you are disappointed. Sucks.

Answer 2

I know what you are saying. I have done this myself a few times it's like they are so nice they make you sick. My mom told me that there is two different reasons why a woman or young lady would do this, # 1 is you think it is to good to be real so you let your mind take control and eventually you cannot even stand to look at the guy anymore.,and # 2 is you just aren't attracted to the good guy you want the bad boy the one that you know is trouble but you just can't stay away from but in the end that just comes right back and kicks you in the A$$. I hope I helped you in some way understand one of the many questions that have no real true answer.

Answer 3

See this is why so many guys treat girls the way they do. When we respect you , you dont stay attracted to us. So im sure there are some men that would rather treat a woman with the utmost respect, but in order for them to get any action they gotta get a lil pimpish. See me i treat women nice but im very forward and blunt too , and once we in the bedroom im handlin biznezz

Answer 4

You must be the competitive type, and once he gives in to your desires, then were is the challenge in that, to assist in making a good relationship better and lasting , I'd suggest once one goal is reached set another...don't end the adventure..begin another...if your partner runs out of challenges...ok..he isn't the one but if he meets your challenge...your in for an exciting and interesting relationship.

Answer 5

Maybe these guys are just too nice and not your type. You need one of those really hot bad boys then you'll love the nice guys!!

Answer 6

First off...BREATHE!!! If you have to take a breath when typing, use some form of punctuation!

Secondly, I have no friggin' idea...
Women like you annoy the hell out of me!
So in that regard the feeling is mutual.

Figure out what you want.
Do you want someone to love and take care of you?
Or
Do you want someone that will just use you for sex or money?

Do all of us guys a favor and figure it out.

Answer 7

Bcoz girls are fooling themselves when they say they like those types of men. We love playas bcoz we love drama! Those nice gentlemen who are worth our time seem to be boring and are just worth keeping as pets! Women are just ungrateful.

Answer 8

Because you like to feel neglected and abuse try looking for a guy at the local prison

Answer 9

i just think its that us females like a bad boy. i mean of course you want the sweet side but you dont want that nice one who does these nice things 24-7. they creep me out to and its not just you. we dont want that guy to always open the door or say are you ok or buy you everything you want or treat you so gently so you wont get a scratch. of course at times he can do that but sometimes you just want them to treat you like crap. maybe to be a little aggressive like when hes playing video games and your talkin to him and he dosent listen so you scream at him and he screams back so you jump on him and try to kiss him but he backs off then eventually hell kiss you and hold you then hell have you in his arms while playing his game. :) see stupid crap like that we like.

Answer 10

Some girls like a rough, macho man, not a nice do goody good. I guess you are one of these girls.