okay. the girl i'm seeing contacted me and confessed she likes me. then as we date, she says that she is confused about everything thats happening. we both know how we care about each other but is she beginning to think otherwise when she says shes confused?
2006-06-20 06:30:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make her confident in your relationship let her know how you feel, show her attention. She probably needs reasurance that you are going to be together for a while.
2006-06-20 06:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused about what? Are you talking about you and her getting Intimate? If you and this girl are of age...18...then u are safe...BUT if youre both still young ...under 17...even at 17 youre still too young...You should let her have her time to think things thru...rushing or pushing a girl into something she is not ready for is WRONG........Especially if you 2 are too young...Take your time..you have alot of time to do all that later when youre both ready....Take care
2006-06-20 06:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to sound mean, just truthful, but maybe her expectations of you were different before she really got to know you, and once the she saw what you are about she realized your not what she wants, I'm sure there is someone out there who will think you are special.
2006-06-20 06:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by pacoficha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with her and she's saying she's confused, she just wants a booty call. It's a nice way of saying, "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am". Women like men are rarely truly confused. When someone wants something, they go after it, period. There is no confusion.
2006-06-20 06:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by ·!¦[·ÐarrÁ·]¦!· 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is a possibility. There is a process - confusion, then doubt, then a friendship is considered rather than a full-fledged relationship.
2006-06-20 06:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by mariohell2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have her explain what she means. Maybe your going to fast and she's confused or are you two best friends before you started dating? Maybe she's confused about that. Have her explain what she means and what she wants to do.
2006-06-20 06:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need some alone time to get all of your feelings out in the open with each other.
2006-06-20 06:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by finesthaitian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that.
Don't make the mistake I did, Give her time to sort things out.
If you push to hard you'll only alienate yourself.
Trust me it's nearly impossible to not be bias, you can't turn off feelings so don't bother trying.
Let us know how it goes.
2006-06-20 06:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think she wants to be more than dating but is scared to tell you incase she scares you off! i think she cares for you more than you realise.
time for talk and get those feelings out there so there will not be anymore confusion
2006-06-20 06:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all the sudden shes confused, its because all the sudden someone better showed intrest.
2006-06-20 06:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by b_sav510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋