Everyday atleast one person,at my work,if i am out,would tell me i am very beautiful.When i am on the road driving guys would scream so hard at me,People are always flirting with me.I broke up with my ex about 4 months back,Now everyday or every other day he tells me how ugly i am,He would say my nose looks broken,my eyes are little crooked,I have huge ears,And when every time he is drunk he would call me and start telling me how much he loves me.next day he will forget all about it and would call me ugly and start saying i am whore.How should i tell him to stop being mean with me?
2006-06-20 06:26:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called being ignorant and uneducated in the ways of human nature....
2006-06-20 06:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason he calls you up to make fun of you is to feel better about himself. He knows you are drop dead gorgeous, but if he can convince himself that you are ugly, it will make himself feel better about you dumping him. Also, he wants to make you feel ugly so that you start crying and go back to him and say "no one else will love me because i'm ugly." That's why when he is drunk he says that he loves you, those are his true emotions.
I don't know why you are still talking to this guy, but the reason he's yelling at you is because he's heartbroken and he can't get another girl as beautiful as you.
First, just let him know you don't like the way he is harrassing you and that it's over. Then you should stop picking up the phone when he calls. Just let it ring, block his number, just cut the rope completely. No friendship, No love, nothing. If he shows up at the door, warn him that you'll get a restraining order.
After you're done with him, get a new man and take it slow.
2006-06-20 13:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by blackknightpictures 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important is how you feel about yourself. Obviously he is still in love with you or infatuated still to keep calling you. If it is an issue for you-change your phone number and get a restraining order. He is going to try and make your life miserable because he is miserable without you. Don't let other people dictate how you feel about yourself because you will always be unhappy. God made you perfect the way you are-believe it and know it. There is so much out there to enjoy in life rather than being worried about one person. Good luck!
2006-06-20 13:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even still talking to this guy? He's obviously abusive, and seems like he may be on his way to being an alcoholic. If people tell you you are beautiful take it to heart! You're most likely a beautiful person both inside and out, and if you feel beautiful then you are beautiful. Forget about this mean, creepy guy and go find a man who respects you and treats you like the goddess you are!!
2006-06-20 13:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by bibliophile_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is typical behaviour from people with low self-confidence. To boost their own ego, they dis other people. He still wants u and tells u this so u can believe that ur not worth anything better than the jerk that he is. What a dawg! Don't stoop to his childish level. U need 2 move away 4rm pple who break u down like that, and find a man who appreciates u.
U ARE BEAUTIFUL, DON'T EVER DOUBT THAT GIRL!
2006-06-20 13:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell? don't make me come there and dropkick you like Chuck Norris. then your nose will be really brioiken this time...
you broke up, let it go, don't answer his calls. are u still being naive and want some stupid psycho analysis of the relationship, and now you see the true colours of that a'ss of a bf u HAD.... u are being silly, and especially if you think you comfortable with yourself and think u are pretty enough to go back on the scene...
he is a loser, who thinks it will help by abusing you...ignore this. it is childish... real men dont do this.
2006-06-20 13:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With an order of Protection from the courthouse. Those usually do the trick, if that doesn't work, I'm sure you have friends, use them for some friendly persuasion if you know what I mean.
2006-06-20 13:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just need to be blunt and get it out. Call him and let him know how you feel and tell him that if he has a problem with being nice to you then to just quit calling you.
2006-06-20 13:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously the guy you were with is very immature, so its going to be hard to reason with him and just ask him to leave you alone. So my suggestion is to change your phone number and stop taking crap from this loser.
2006-06-20 13:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by DNet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't just change your phone number and never talk to the loser again it's evident that he wants you back but knows that he has no chance.
2006-06-20 13:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Shya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋