why do black men deny black women?

Question

they say cuz they attitudes or because a woman of another race would do more for them but thats bullshit ive had familymembers and friends do this and a ***** is a ***** no matter what race and a woman is a woman

miss rachel dats bull yall da ones who invented deepthroat maybe dats why i think its cuz yall easier men dont like da attitude cuz its to hard yall r jus easier to handle i guess easier to control

outspoken good reply and Earl G im happy for u and i do believe there is strenght in submission i jus want a man who wont take my submission for weakness and i only need to submit to my GOD and HUSBAND and if u aint one or the otha then we gon compromise maybe but i feel ya and tell ya wifey i said keep it up seems like a good lady as am i

Answer 1

oh hell no!!!!...lol....where did "rachel" come up with that "black women make themselves more available"..oh no honey...you got it twisted ......THATS the reason black guys go for white women...not the other way around...lol....omg that gave me the laugh of the day....

and its true yea we have attitude but i have seen some white, latino, chinese, japenese, german, irish (now u just dont mess with irish women)...with the same attitude as well..why?..because we are WOMEN ...we are the ones who have the periods, bear the children, wipe snotty noses and get up in the middle of the night when they are crying. WE are the ones that give up the sex when we dont want too at times...

black women just dont take ****...............whats wrong with that?....not a damn thing........

Answer 2

Because the Media plays on old stereotypes of Black Men that are brain-washed by the Euro-centric message of the Imperialistic White-American. He believes if he has a white women he'll become the 'man'. Most black men are not like this, many would want to scoop up their sistas and marry them. But unfortunately the Media exploits this idea and stereotype. The White man wants to think he has the best woman so he make white women seem more attractive to black men.And BTW Black women aren't the only ones with attitudes, there are plenty of angry White, Latino, Asian, Middle Eastern, and Desi women out there. If you believe that Black women are these hos and bitches with attitude you've been watching too many Rap videos.

Answer 3

Life is full of questions we will never have the answer too. As black women we have to make a difference and if we allow the stereotypes, facts, opinions of why black men run to white women we will never get the respect we deserve. Just a little food for thought check this video out, it might give you a small insight or a few answers to your questions:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=bEfMxPHO9e0&search=tired%20black%20man

Answer 4

girl i don't even know. I think that black woman have become independent and we know that we won't put up with some of that bs that black men give us and they figure that a chick from another race will. That's all that is. I could give you the whole speech about black women being independent and all that good stuff but i think you already know.

Answer 5

I'm not sure that black women are denied by black men ... but I would agree that black women tend to take less "stuff" than other races, or at least that is how black women are portrayed. I saw a joke once where a black man was dating white women, and kept getting turned down, and he dated a black woman and ended up getting his butt kicked ... he had bruises on his face, busted lip, etc. It was a black woman who gave this to me, and she, as well as other black women, found this humorous. I didn't think it was funny at all. In fact, I think that in order for relationships to truly work, there is submission that should take place on both sides, both for the man, and for the woman. Now, I'll agree that many women are very independent, have a mind of their own, etc ... but generally, black women are known not to be as submissive as other races, and many black women are proud of this, because if you are not submissive, you are strong. But I beleive that there is strength in submission, as we are called by our Christian heritage and philosophy to be submissive to one another, thereby becoming submissive to God.

Again, not all black women are put into this category. I have been married for about 18 years, and I haven't denied my wife. She is a well educated, thoughtful, insightful woman who loves her children, and her husband, and has her own life, and my support for her life. She is very respectful of me, and of others, and wants to grow in age and in spirit with me. I would say that there are many women, black or otherwise, who would say they want this, but don't want to submit themselves fully to this cause. Yet, based on the stigma of black women, submission seems to be given on lower levels ... only the small things ... not the bigger ones, as in emptiness of self into another person.

Again, I don't agree with your statement, nor do I agree with the stigma, but it is something that is going around, and there are plenty of black men who say this, but not to the women to whom it applies.

Answer 6

Hard telling - maybe they want a "trophy" to show around. Black women are hot and sexy.

Answer 7

not to be racist but black women do tend to have attitudes. plus they make themselves more available which white women(or asian, latin..) do not(to black guys).