I love her and she loves me ,Its hard to deal with at time what are some things I can do to help me go throu this intil we marry in a year or so.
2006-06-20 06:06:49 · 9 answers · asked by badboie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't say but isn't the reason why she went celibate have something to do with you two getting married in the next year or so. If so, you can make it. It won't be long. Keep your head up, you can do it.
2006-06-20 06:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes pushing you for somthing.
Maybe one of her girlfriends did that head wiggle they do and snaped her fingers 2 times and said that line about "buying the cow if you get the milk for free!" So shes cut you off to hurry the marriage.
Seriously I'd dig a bit and see if somthing else is going on. That is a VERY major unilateral decision for her to make. Its very hard to have a relationship that includes sex then suddenly does not. Its also a very radical change. Find out what brough this change around it did not just appear on its own. If you love her you can suffer a year but without knowing why she decided this you might be sailing into trouble.
2006-06-20 06:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by MercyMillennium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, you will wait. It is hard to be celibate but in the end, your relationship will be stronger for it.
2006-06-20 06:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Secret A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy with projects to keep your mind off it. Or rent a porn and ease the sexual tension with yourself. Just cause she is celibate, doesn't mean that you can't play with yourself.
Anyways, that is great that you accept her decisions and didn't force her to do what you want.
2006-06-20 06:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already been in a relationship for four years, it's hard to understand why you won't marry for another year or so.
Maybe she's trying to tell you something....
2006-06-20 06:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she is really celibate or has she found a toy boy.
2006-06-20 06:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect her wishes an find other things that aren't sex but equally as fun. and if thats not good enough just for your own personal benefit, do what you got to do. watch porn, whatever.
2006-06-20 06:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by shaggydude24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bizarre and pointless. Has she become a born again Christian? If not, tell her to drop her pants immediately! It's not fair to you.
2006-06-20 06:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to spell, don't be bad, don't be asshole!
2006-06-20 06:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋