me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time (he's more experienced) and it was very good. but his d%@* is a 9 incher and it is very thick and big. he strokes it very hard and deep and it feels very good but i didnt orgasm. what can be the problem???
2006-06-20 06:05:00 · 14 answers · asked by kandy_kiss16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO HE IS VERY INTIMATE WIT ME....HE KISS AND TOUCHES ME.EVERY THING...I JUST DIDNT ***!
2006-06-20 06:18:09 · update #1
nothing you are just new at it many women dont have orgasm the first time the next time just work on it injoy it tell him what gets you off youll see ok
2006-06-20 06:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was probebly 1st time jitters. Just cause he's more experienced with other women doesn't mean he knows everything. All women are different and different things get them off. Just relax and enjoy yourself. Don't worry sooooo much about an orgasm, because the more pressure there is to have one, the less likely it will happen. If his size is a problem (and it sounds like it could be) make sure you have some water based lube (like KY Jelly) to make sure you don't "dry" out. You'll never *** like that!!
2006-06-20 13:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not but woman having orgasms are not as regular as most people think. If you do eventually have one, you wont have one everytime. Its just the way it is.
2006-06-20 13:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your used to 12 or 13 inches
2006-06-20 13:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by redsoxwchamps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont have a problem i did not have a orgasmic exsperience until i was 23 so just be patient.talk to ya later
2006-06-20 13:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by toy toy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some females can not orgasm without any clitoris stimulation so just try to stimulate it while he is doing his buisness.
2006-06-20 13:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by nicole24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he has a big d##k it doesnt mean he is a good lover, u need to tell him what u really like, where u like to be touched and kissed,
2006-06-20 13:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take short, rapid strokes about 3 inches inside.....and thank me with the best answer points! ;-)
2006-06-20 13:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your more of a oral orgasmer or try to play with yourself while he has sex with you. just a few ideas
2006-06-20 13:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by v_kalbus@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women make love with their minds, men their bodies, that is a big differance, size doesn't matter, is he turning you on is what the problem is.
2006-06-20 13:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by tilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋