He says he loves me and I know he dose but not on the same level as me...and he just dosen't think alot...am I done or do I give another chance.
2006-06-20 06:03:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No more chances... let him be with his ex and you find somone that treats you 100%
2006-06-20 06:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should give this fool another chance. All I'm saying is that you should dump him and find you another boyfriend who will treat you with a lot of respect, but make sure he doesn't go back to his ex. You are the person who you should matter to your new boyfriend, not his ex. If you stay with him, you will be both emotionally hurt and heartbroken. Don't keep going through a lot of hell with that fool, okay? Good.
2006-06-20 06:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by brian 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are done. It sounds like you already gave him many chances. If you don't stop, you'll do that for ever or until he'll decide to dump you. It's pretty obvious he has a commiting problem. He needs to clean up his emotional life, so you'd be able to trust him. Unfortunately, from what you say, he doesn't seem to even plan on that. He's taking you for granted and that is not right.
2006-06-20 06:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Style 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have kids? Was this his first love? there are many factors that makes him want to stick by her; maybe he is very comfortable around her. maybe if he feels that there is a problem with you 2 he can talk to her. Honey there are many kinds of love that people feel if he says he loves you and you know it then let it run its course,there is a reason why they are not together and you 2 are just love him and trust him and it will all work out.
2006-06-20 06:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by shelly p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit playing his games, the reason he says he loves you is probably to keep you around until something better comes along - that's what the "not at the same level as you" is for. there is no reason to be around his ex - hence the ex part! move on girl, too many strikes, he should be out by now! best of luck.
2006-06-20 06:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl, how many times do you need to have your heart broken?
There is a special guy out there for you, that will treat you good, and you can trust him. You're his stand by, dump him. I just pack it up and leave, take the loss...it hurts like hell...beat him to the
punch.
2006-06-23 18:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I wouldn't give a second chance. My reason being is because if you let him get away with it once, he's going to think he can keep doing it. It's gonna be a vicious circle of hurt if you don't.
2006-06-20 06:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by SquirrelBait 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never gets better trust me i married someone that is "great friends" with thier ex they have kids togehter and although they were never married at first i thought it was nice that they are able to remian friends now everytime he is there to long i begin to suspect he is still sleeping with her so do yourself a favor and get out while you can do not make yourself worry and wonder there's to many men out there without the dreadful ex's being thier best friend
2006-06-20 06:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships includes trusting ur partner.
My question to u is DO u trust him?
It is a posibility that ur bf mite still have feeling for his ex..
Just be honest and tell him how u feeL..
If it is not meant 2 b u'll know.
2006-06-20 06:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by AdorableHearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are is called....FOOLISH. I can NOT believe your asking us how many chances you should give this boy who told you he doesnt care for you the way you care for him AND he has been around his ex. Your playing yourself honey.
2006-06-20 06:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋