I'm a female & have female friends that can have sex with others besides their significant other and then go home to them and not feel guilty about it at all. I personally wouldn't even be able to look at my man if I did anything like that, but my one friend is having sex with a married man who has kids & she's totally fine with it. She also has a few other guys on the side too other than her main man of 8 years. I don't get it.
2006-06-20 05:58:11 · 19 answers · asked by Lotus 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She is a sociopath.
2006-06-20 06:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OOOOHH!!! I love this question. There are a couple explainations for this scenario. One reason is, if she really does "love" her husband, is that to her sex is only sex and thats it. There is no emotional connection or feelings for any other partners. It can be considered as something fun or just a way to satisfy herself and nothing more. Therefore she doesnt see the need to tell him. Another reason could be that she really doesnt love him and she is still with him only for the convenience. OR if he is not satisfying her in the bedroom this is just her way of getting what she's not getting at home and therefore, she can justify what she's doing in her mind. In any case, I share your feelings in that I definately could not do the same thing without feeling guilty but there are obviously those out there that can.
2006-06-20 13:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by lilange157 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because they look at it with it just "having sex" with no ties or relations or feelings for that matter. I know its all about mind control. They get what they want and then go home and love their husband even more just cause they know their men love them. I think it could very well be something they are lacking in themselves and has nothing to do with their boyfriends or husbands.
2006-06-20 13:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by so many to choose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about introducing us to some of those lovely cheating girlfriends of yours?!!!!
And what if your guy is cheating you with one of those cheating girls around you? How and just how can you be fully sure? A mans heart and brains are in his pants and not in his head. Just never forget that. Obviously, this would apply to many women..as long as nobody get's hurt and everybody enjoys greaaaat sex!!!!
2006-06-20 13:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mr ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lotus:
I think it's a psychological thing to able to do what your friend does and not feel guilty about it. There will come a time where she will have a crisis of conscience and she will break. Mark my words!
2006-06-20 13:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Gonzo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's human instinct.. some people do and others dont..I think that there is a certain number of times you can do something and feel an emotion about it..and after the (insert number of your choice) time..then you are "de-sensatized" to the action
2006-06-20 13:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm--she sounds kinda slutty in my opinion-has she ever thought about how she would feel if she was the wife & not the other woman? Plus, think about how many diseases she is exposing herself to! Maybe she doesn't have a conscience, or maybe she has a really low self esteem & sleeping w/guys makes her feel better. Who knows? Just don't turn into one of them!
2006-06-20 13:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar Magnolia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't have empathy - for whatever reason they don't see how their actions make others feel. Even if they do something nice for you - they really are doing it only to make themselves feel good. I think everyone is self-centered to a certain point but there are other people who just can't feel for others at all.
2006-06-20 13:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by plenymo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she just doesn't have a conscience, period. You can't MAKE her care..and in my opinion, she can't really love the man she's with. We could go really deep and say that she doesn't have a strong self-esteem and that maybe she thinks that's the only way she can get acceptance from a guy....
2006-06-20 13:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats because they really have now feelings for the person there with..So they can mess around and not feel gilt..Or there trying to get back at there boyfriends for something they did to them..that or there just SlU*'S
2006-06-20 13:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really believe that no matter who it is, man or woman they are very capable of cheating without feeling any guilt in their conscience... I cheated before...and I used to feel guilty...but not anymore...!!! I'm in a relationship with a married man....and I believe he doesn't feel any guilt...so why I should feel guilty?....I don't...!!!!!
2006-06-20 13:09:32 · answer #11 · answered by Mulatta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋