Ok, I'm 23 yrs, college graduate no kids, good job, very funny, pretty and ambitious, but I am single. Any suggesteions why?
2006-06-20 05:45:52 · 19 answers · asked by Pisces Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, you're a triple threat for some guys:
Smart = They can't play games with you
Independent = They can't buy or impress you with bling
Ambitious = They've gotta back up the talk with some action
The man who isn't intimidated by those traits is the one worth your attention. He'll be secure enough in himself and mature enough to not play games. So don't change a thing about yourself - keep being you girl! When someone is worthy, you'll know it in a heartbeat. ^_^
2006-06-20 05:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Soca Sistah 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure some guys are intimidated, but it's up to you to ease their concerns if you are interested in them. Usually, intimidation stems from lack of self confidence, or a concern that your expectations may be too high.
Show them that you are a regular girl, go out wearing jeans and a t-shirt, be a regular gal. I've noticed that men feel more comfortable with the natural look. Just some thoughts.
Maybe it's just not the right time for you to meet a guy. I've never known anyone to find a man, when they are looking for one.
Good Luck Dear!
2006-06-20 05:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nanjadufrance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the way you see yourself or do others compliment you in the same way?
The way you describe yourself, I would be all over asking you out.
My thought would be maybe you hang out in the wrong places where guys do find you intimidating. I would imagine you would be comfortable dating a bit older. Usually with a few years guys become more secure and can really appreciate a woman with your attributes.
You give me hope! I thought all the beautiful and intelligent women were already a little rock heavy on their left hand...
2006-06-20 05:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 00:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sounds like my wife. I think the issue is that at 23, most people are just starting to figure out who they really are (since they are finally leaving the immature party all day stage,, hopefully), and what they want to do with their life. It is a hard time for people. Give it a couple years, and things will straighten out more and you'll have better luck finding people to date.
2006-06-20 05:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because u r too aggressive at a aproching a man or some man think u r beautiful and don't have the courage to ask you out
2006-06-20 05:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by andyrevilak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the wrong type of man is intimidated by you, but the right one isn't. the right one will embrace it and make sure you continue to do well in whatever you decide on doing. you want a man that will help you grow as an individual and prosper as a couple!
2006-06-20 06:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by southerncmfrt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I possess most of the same qualities and I'm single. We just haven't been in the right place at the right time Hon.
2006-06-20 05:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to a nice club with some friends and wait and see if any guys offer to buy you a drink or ask you to dance.
2006-06-20 05:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by dale6956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you have 4 arms and can shoot laser through your eyes...
even then, I could still dropkick you like Chuck Norris with a roundhouse kick...
and those traits are relative, you probably havent met the person who appreciates all that and can 'dance' with you on the same plains of love...
2006-06-20 05:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋