My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months and have just moved in together. He doesn't show a lot of affection and sometimes I wonder if he wants to be with me. He tells me cares a lot about me, but sometimes it makes me wonder.
Am I paranoid?
2006-06-20 05:45:42 · 8 answers · asked by BbyGrl80 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you have needs as well and you have to make him aware of them. Sometimes guys we don't catch on to sublte hint then three months from now we come home she's crying and we can't figure out why. Then you unlaod everything that you've had bottled up for the last 5 months and the whole time he could really be clueless. Let him know what your thinking and why and see what he says, but assuming is never the way to go. You just moved in so establishing communication is key. Here is you first chance to do so. I hope it all works out well.
2006-06-20 05:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am the same way. I have been with someone for 2 years now and just ain't into affection but I do like to have fun with her and enjoy the things we do. Also my last two relationships that lasted for 3 years each I was the same way. I am faithful but just don't like to show alot of affection.
2006-06-20 13:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by dale6956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look ill tell you this. We are only as confusing as you make us out to be. If we are doing something you dont like or makes you uncomfortable, then move on. See women as well as men make the mistake of stayin in a situation their not happy with because of the physical / mental attraction.
2006-06-20 12:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by b_sav510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHH!!!%^%( Crazy girl!!! Why is that confusing? He doesnt shower you with love and affection because if he did, you would get sick of it. Every guy is different. If he shows you love in other ways like flowers or making dinner, taking you to dinner, rubbing feet, something, then dont worry. If he comes home, has sex with you, asks you about dinner before he asks you about your day, and goes to sleep without saying goodnight and or i love you, then I would question it. if not, then dont worry. YOU ARE CONFUSING! You question and analyze things that need not be anazlyed. Guys are face value, if you want to analyze somebody, date a chick!
2006-06-20 12:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by alienorgy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to turn the tables and play his game.
2006-06-20 12:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dance Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get him to communicate with you. maybe he's afraid of true intimacy and committment.....good luck
2006-06-20 12:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, guys are just...weird..and this one sounds immature
2006-06-20 12:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by dirtblonde1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should worry
2006-06-20 12:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋