i really love him but its getting kinda boring..what should i do???I dont want to break up with him but if it doesnt start getting interesting i might have to dump him
2006-06-20 05:42:46 · 31 answers · asked by crazitexasgirl05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really,well Ur not married dont stay wit someone cause u feel bad for them...don't settle go have fun.
2006-06-20 05:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might the think the same thing. Maybe you both need to talk about it. Remember men cannot read our minds and if you dont say something you will never know. Dumping him might be an option but test the water first, ask questions and then based on his answer if he is just a very boring individual offer some suggestion he might be open enough to try; if that doesn't work then dump him.
2006-06-20 05:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually you cant just blame it all on him because sometimes you have to make things interesting yourself in a relationship its like a 2 way street so if you say its getting kinda boring well spice it up be adventurous do stuff you and him might not normally do... but why would you want to dump him because he's boring do something about it dont dump him because hes boring make it not boring its stupid if you did that you cant just go around dumping everyone bc of the little things then no one would want to be with you! think about it!
2006-06-20 05:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Caylee's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel. If you really love him, you would want this relationship to continue without even thinking about dumping him. Unless he is abusing you, if you really love him, you shouldn't want to break up. Maybe you should reconsider whether you really love this guy or not (maybe it's just an infatuation). If it's kind of boring, try to spice up the relationship by doing fun stuff. Talk to him. Have a mature discussion.
2006-06-20 05:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by King Yellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up, action chick! There's two of you in this relationship, why does HE have to get exciting? Was he "exciting at first and then stopped, or are you just the type that bangs and moves on after a while? Be honest with yourself and him. Do him a favor and move on if you are just a humper/dumper.
2006-06-20 05:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just as boring as your boyfriend. I say you settle down and have lots of boring kids.
Or you simply have to have the excitement, you can become a Marylin Manson groupie. In which case just run off and do it.
2006-06-20 05:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you really love him. don't give up on him yet! first, you can talk to him about it. second, you can do the spicing-up yourself to make the next date a little more "interesting". that might give him a hint on what to do on your succeeding dates. and third, be a little more agressive with your boyfriend. maybe he needs some "agitation"!!!
2006-06-20 05:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself. 3 months your supposed to be finding out about each other. its not supposed to be magic all day long! do you know everything about him go out and talk. talk talk. then later on down the road when he's trippin you can't say I didn't know he was like that or I didn't know he smoked weed, or I didn't know he had other kids. Learn your mate! you will regret it in the end if you don't
2006-06-20 05:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by want-my-advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you waiting on him to make it more interesting? What are you doing to make it interesting? Stop putting so much on the men when it comes to making a relationship work sweety!
2006-06-20 05:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf and I have been dating for 3 months.......
And why is it your bf's responsibility to make things interesting? If you want variety, then spice it up honey!
2006-06-20 05:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aahh true love. Boring the pants off me too
2006-06-20 05:45:36 · answer #11 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋