Do anyone knows how 2 deal with them?
2006-06-20 05:36:37 · 26 answers · asked by imani9_867 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We are difficult because we care. We don't want to see you make the same mistakes we made growing up. We want to see you grow up happy and healthy and that makes us difficult on you. Almost every parent wants things to be easier and better for you than the way it was when we were growing up even if there wasn't anything wrong with the way we grew up. That is why we are so difficult on our children. We really only want what is best for you. The one thing I have learned being a parent though is you do have to let your kids make their own mistakes so they can learn from them. And as a parent, I can tell you without a doubt the hardest thing for me to do is sit back and watch one of my kids do something I know is wrong or is going to hurt them and not say anything. Most of the time I can't stand by and I do say something and that does make me difficult. The one thing you should always remember is your parents wouldn't be difficult unless they loved and cared about you.
2006-06-20 05:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by puppy2adopt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents are difficult because they love and care about you. You may not believe it now, but they are trying to protect you from anything that might hurt you. I use to wonder the same thing, but now that I have two girls of my own, I understand why my mom was so hard on me. They just want to raise you with some morals and responsibility, believe me, in the end, you will appreciate it. If this is about sex, I had to learn this the hard way,,,,,, guys respect you more if you don't give it up!!!!!!
2006-06-20 05:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are difficult because they want the Best for you. Learn to understand them and appreciate them, you will thank them a few years down the line when you realise that all the things that they tell you now, will make sense to you then.
2006-06-20 05:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by v_navin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing to remember is that parents are just people too.
The have good moods bad moods, they have all of the same feelings that you have, and as a parent, I love my son more than words can say, but I make mistakes (probably on a daily basis) in dealing with him.
Behind every decision a parent makes good or bad, there is love.
2006-06-20 05:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by jakesmom73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parenst aren't difficult .... actually the problem is that one is making it difficult to understand them by creating bad thinkings .... its not that way .... after all they have done a lot of things to bring u up to the point where you are standing right now !! just try to understand the situation and change according to it .... dont push your parents to change so that u can make it simple !! yeah if they are doing wrong .... like u can't judge it right now but socially if they are ... u may push them to change or not to adopt those kind of stuff !!
2006-06-20 05:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by X_PeRieNce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a parent is a hard job. They do things in reasons that as a child you don't understand, but that help you throughout your life. Once you are older and become a parent yourself, you realize what they were talking about or trying to do for you.
2006-06-20 05:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by houstonmom77064 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most parents are just acting upon there experiences when they were young. They already went through more experiences and difficulties than you have so why dont you spend more time assuming they know what they are talking about instead of pretending you know more than them. If you do, then the difficulty disappears.
have a nice day.
2006-06-20 05:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno wut u mean about parents. im guessing that the u think are to strikted.well when ur thinkin thhat life is to unfair well parents are stirked because they love u. they dont want u to end up at wendys. they want u to get a good job, to have a good life. well think of it this way if ur parents werent on u how they are now u would be causing trouble and being a kid they think they failed as parents. so listen to ur parents and life will go well from there. trust me i went through the whole thing.
2006-06-21 08:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jacob R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are difficult becasue you are focused on what lies outside the lines. If you focus on what is between the lines you'll discover a new fredom you never knew existed.
As you get older...the distance between the lines will increase. I promise!
2006-06-20 05:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by kromane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are difficult because they love you and their job is to be difficult. Appreciate them while you can. I'd literally kill to have my parents back to drive me nuts.
2006-06-20 05:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋