I'm a great guy, very polite and have confidece. I made a good impression friday night, but like i said i want to wow her. we've e-mailed a few times already today and I belive she's exited too. I've been on a few dates since my divorce but I think this girl is great but I dont want to come on to strong so I'm going to be careful about that. SUGGETIONS PLEASE!!!!
2006-06-20 05:34:58 · 6 answers · asked by SCHMUCKY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her as how u talk last friday night...if u are who u are that night then dont be afraid to continue being who u are
tell her how pretty her dress is, and let her know how well it looks on her...small casual talks can help
the fact that she's in regular contact with u is a sure sign she likes u...and waiting for u to say the right words to sweep her off her feet...
so be who u r cause deep down inside u already won her heart
2006-06-20 05:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by kristy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Scene 1: Start by arriving on time and bringing her a bouque of wild flowers. Not roses!! Wild flowers. You can't go wrong. Then surprise her and tell her you want to show her something. You then wisk her away to an art exhibit that really speaks to you. A painting or photograph you have researched before. Tell about the artist and what makes this peice so amazing. Hopefully this place will be really quiet and sheek, you know think Museum without the tourist.
Scene 2: Then take her to go listen to some live music at a local cafe. Or just a coffe or tea house that plays light music. Do not take her to a Starbucks! I repeat DO NOT TAKE HER TO STARBUCKS!! A small mom and pop will do just fine. It will be relaxing and the entertainment and or music will serve as a buffer if you run out of things to say. Order something light, because you will have dinner later.
Scene 3: Find a park to feed the ducks. Its a good time to talk about nothing and people watch. If you are not near a park. Then
your next spot should be the book store. Browse the isle separtly. This will give you sometime to get over the "gitters" and think about the rest of the date. Then find her later to see what book she has in her hand. Ask her about the book, blah blah blah, and then leave. You should have worked up a good appetite by now.
Scene 4: Arrive at dinner. The place should be nice but not too nice. You want to woo her but not buy her. Let her choose her meal, but order the wine. I hope she drinks. Lord I hope she drinks, If not order a sparkling water and as the waiter to throw in a couple of raspberries. Order dessert that she can take home. That way she will think about the night you all had once shes snuggled in for the night. That should maker her feel special.
Scene 5: The ride home. Tell her how the day went by so fast and you want to see her again. You open her car door and walk her to her steps. Then you say "Hold a second, I almost forgot!" You run back to the car and in the back seat you pull out the book she was gawking about in the book store.
How did you do that?? You text your best friend when you leave the store and tell him to purchase the book for you and drop it in the back seat of your car while you having dinner. It can be done with some careful planning. Big or small town. If you are lucky your next date you will be singing " IIII got some booty!!!, III got some booty!!" Trust me I am a woman of a certain age. She will love it!! Good Luck
2006-06-20 06:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wonder Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress nice, wear a nice smelling cologne and when you pick her up let the first thing out of your mouth be...."You look beautiful tonight!" Then just be yourself. That is what got you the date in the first place.
2006-06-20 05:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by squashpatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so cute how nervous you are!! My boyfriend was the same way on our first date. He was polite and kind, pulled my chair out for me, etc. The one thing that I liked best, was he brought me flowers when he picked me up. They weren't fancy, a carnation and a rose with some baby's breath, but it was the sweetest thought!! Take her some simple flowers when you pick her up, it made a big splash with me.
2006-06-20 05:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Stakiefett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make any bold gestures. show her you're interested with the small things... like smiling and taking interest in her life and being a gentleman. dont lean in to kiss her unless she show signs that she's expecting u to. (ie: hanging out longer in front of her door, tugging her hair behind her ear looking shy... etc) good luck!! and hey, be yourself!
2006-06-20 05:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and be nice with her
2006-06-20 05:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋