My bestfriend who turns 20 this year fell preggies last yr, & since i was the only one she felt she cud confess to, she told me 1st & ask'd me 2 be her baby's Godmother. I accepted. She confessed 2day (the baby's 8months now) that her baby daddy is 48yrs old, and is married with children and that she still luvs him. I don't kno what advice 2 give her without being judgemental... We haven't been tight-tight lately, coz we now live in separate countries, i hadn't evn known she was going out with him! Help! What do I say?
2006-06-20 05:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by AfroSistah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her, yes... she might be in love with the guy. But she has to think about her future and also the baby's.
The father is married and that could give her the additional headache when the time comes. Having a relationship is not only about being in love... it is so much about having peace of mind and emotional stability. Love is a two-way street. She loves the guy, but would he leave his family for her sake to prove his love for your friend? I don't think so!
Yes, she committed a very big mistake. But she needs to pick-up the pieces and move on. Her gift fro heaven is the baby... and not the father!
2006-06-20 05:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ross 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If your are the baby's god mother your concern should be the baby welfare. Just tell her that the decisions she make with her love life you cant help her with because they are her choices. Some ppl even get offended when you try and show them the light so just be a friend with the shoulder to cry on when she comes to you.
2006-06-20 05:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the dad know about the baby?? Is so.. She can write the dad a letter saying to meet the baby and her somewhere and not bring his kids and his wife.
2006-06-20 05:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by jamie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support your friend, she ask you because she trust you and she may think you are not going to judge her, anly if she ask, then give you opinion, but do not try to tell her what to do, just say something like, I don't think is a good idea to but you knoe what you are doing...
2006-06-20 05:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the great words of MC BREED"aint no future in yo frontin" she is in a dead in situation,tell her to find some one else, this sucks more for the child involed, becaus most likly the man will have nothing to do with it growing up
2006-06-20 05:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter who the daddy is! She is your friend and this is her child and you should be honored to be the Godmother!
Stay out of who the daddy is!
2006-06-20 05:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you bypass to the law enforcement officials, your sister would say no we did not, then there isn't any longer a lot the Police can do. perchance your 15 12 months previous sis needs to allow you to understand mum. dangle on, WTF, she is 15 and could no longer be doing this besides.
2016-10-14 08:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing u could do for her is be there,,asn dont judge her,,things happen for a reason.
2006-06-20 05:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i gotta tell ya, thats nasty. I wouldn't say anything. She doesn't want to hear it. She just wants to tell you. Just listen. Be there for her.
2006-06-20 05:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything........if she doesn't ask then don't tell. if she says 'be honest' no matter how much it hurts you have to tell her.....after all she is your friend.
2006-06-20 05:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Love Karma™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋