2006-06-20 05:20:30 · 45 answers · asked by tay4blu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you ask your future wife and she says it is okay than it is okay, it is not okay if she doesn't know and accept it!
2006-06-20 05:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love some one enough to ask them to marry you, then this means you are committing yourselves to one another. If you need to have a fling before the wedding , then i would advise you not to get married. The urge will always be there for you long after the wedding and this will cause a hardship with you and your wife. Besides you stand to lose a hell of a lot more later daown that divorce road. Better not to marry and save the headaches of lawyers, alimony, courts,child support. Get this all out of your system in about 10 more years. Then look to marry, bu the special girl in your life right now wont be there waiting foir you. Its all your decision.
Good Luck
From someone who has been down this road before!
2006-06-20 05:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by mailbox1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you getting married in the first place? If you feel the need to sleep around now, don't married at all. It seems to me you have a problem with you high sex drive. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free!!!!!! It seems you need do to ask yourself a question. Do I really love this person I am marrying? or Do I love being a single man the rest of my life??? Would you allow your girlfriend to do the same thing as you???? You and her can get it all out ya'll system????
2006-06-20 05:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what then how do you know your ready to get married. Your wife is who your spending the rest of your life with you want to have that hanging on your shoulders your whole marriage then you wont see it as a big deal in the future what if she slept with a couple of more guys.. HELLO When your engaged your married do ppl not get that. I'm not trying to be rude but i just don't see where u would be coming from
2006-06-20 05:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is ok for you to do it with another woman, then send your g/f my way an I will take care of her while you are busy. Dont be an asshole. If you are going to cheat on her then dont get married. Thats why couples dont stay together anymore, They just dont care about there partner. I was kidding about your woman. I have my own and I dont want anyone elses.
2006-06-20 05:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is it alright for your future wife to have sex with a few more guys before you get married??? Guys are so stupid, when they have something great they want to do something stupid like your talking about to ruin what a great thing that they already have.
2006-06-20 05:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by e_haney16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dare u to ask her! She might kill u that day buddy. Can ur girlfriend have sex with a couple of guys b4 u get married. Hey didn't i see ur name in the swinger club?
2006-06-20 05:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you are committed enough to be engaged/married, then it is clearly wrong. But if your conscious is OK with it and you won't get caught, then who cares? Just don't bang someone close or who will tell your fiancee. Hookers are good for this kind of thing.
2006-06-20 05:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll the whole concept of having sex before marriage is wrong
The answer lies in ur question
U r not sure bout it b'coz u know it is wrong.........so y to ask
Just think bout the girl u r gettin married wid??
Wud u like if she feels the same thing as u???????
2006-06-20 05:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure as long as your willing to let your future wife bang a few guys before you get married
2006-06-20 05:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is wrong!!!! The only way a good marriage or any relationship can work is with trust and honesty. If I were you I wouldn't do it unless I wanted to be divorced and lose a person that honestly gave a damn about me.
2006-06-20 05:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋