i feel like i cant be with a guy cause im fat.......i feel like guys want them skinny porn star looking girls,its been over a year since i been with a man any ideals ?
2006-06-20 05:06:27 · 27 answers · asked by vanilla.sexy 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Any body is not known for his / her personality or figure but by his / her characterstics. Aristotle, for instance, was very ugly but he had given directions to mankind. Just look others historical people too. Don't hate yourself. It is not your right. God has made people different because He Himself want to see the people like that. So believe the God and pray to Him for any desire, if you deserve you will get it. So love yourself and spread love to all. God Bless You.
2006-06-20 05:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are looking for the porn star look, just the pervertive ones, which is probably what you see all the time. I know men that like'em thick! and you seem like a pretty girl. I think true connections in relationships are based mostly on emotional connections and not appearance. If guys don't approach you becuz you are fat, then you wouldn't want them anyway. I have weight issues as well. Don't hate yourself because you have more weight. What counts is yourself inside and not your body, OK? :)
2006-06-20 05:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by rash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im like a porn star and i love it!
everyone has different tastes though, personally if I was a guy I would be more into the bigger girls. Some girls like big guys, some girls like little guys. I think it is the same way with guys, some like smaller girls and some like bigger girls. Its all a matter of just being positive and loving yourself for who you are. If you know your worth, guys will be attracted to you because you will come off as sexy and confident! Just believe in yourself and know that you are super hot and you just gotta keep living life for yourself and know the treasures you have inside.
2006-06-20 05:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont put yourself down. give yourself more creadit then that. You have to first respcet yourself and feel good in your body first or no guy will respect you. Nothing is wrong with you. guys are stupid you should know that already. and there are a lot of guys that would think your very sexie. guys like girls that they can hug and put there arms around. without worring about hurting them or thinking they are going to brake them. Guys like girls that have some meat on there bones. if this really bugs you about being over wait. Well dont just sit there and cry about it do something about it. start eating heathly and work out. start out like 30 mins a day. then work your way up.
you are a beautiful girl, just guys dont see that because you are hinding behind your personality and you arent being yourself. guy like girls that can be themselves and have fun with. Give yourself some creadit and have some fun. just be yourself. and if guys dont like you cause your being yourself. Then there *** holes.
Im not a skinny porn star. i have thick lags and a big but and not a very flat tummy. but my boyfriend thinks Im the most sexiest girl in the world and he loves me for me. plus Im myself and Im not scared to be a dork. We have so much fun together.
Go out and have some fun. be yourself and I promies one of this days you will find a guy. maybe not right now but. his out there waiting for you. relax dont go looking for him. let him look for you.
thats how my boyfriend and I meet. he found me! and were so in love.
be yourself and remeber no one knows you more then your own self. have fun this summer and be yourself. Dont hind behind a maske but show other guys about your personalitly and how great of a girl you are.
tell me what happens.
2006-06-20 05:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you lack self confidence. In reality there is a person for everyone no matter what shape, color hair, etc. Television definitely has glorified the slender look. But, if you find a guy who has a mother similar to you, he will fall madly in love with you and you will experience that great feeling. So be patient, take chances, be yourself, and be open for finding that right guy.
2006-06-20 05:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer isnt whats wrong with you ... hell we all have our lists of whats wrong with us.. some skinny porn star gals have aids lol Most likely its the guys your around that are wrong.. maybe your hanging out with immature guys or selfish guys. Ive seen alot of guys on this site that are looking for real love not just sex.
2006-06-20 05:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by trudie_barraza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need a man ur not fat but u should start likin urself more n i guy isnt gonna change the way u feel about urself u cant put that on a guy they cant make u feel better that could be the reason b/c u need to like urself them u could think bout havin a relationship
have a great day
2006-06-20 05:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by buck_wonderz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok vanilla sexy, here's the thing, you are sexy and pretty, just looking at your eyes and (by the way) you have a sweet azzz too. im not trying to be funny i am as sincere as a heart attack!!! most people say i am a wonderful guy but i am NOT perfect and i have my bad side too. maybe you need to improve on your outlook or your attitude, im not sure but from your 360 page you sound a bit harsh. try being less harsh and more caring, that might help. best of luck
2006-06-20 05:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by harmonyandericjrburns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy of who you are. be yourself. no guys want a relationship with a skinny porn star whore. those people look creepy and ugly personality inside. guys wants a girl to have a good personality.
2006-06-20 05:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need a guy to make you happy, then there is something wrong with you. Having a man isn't the only thing that will make you happy in life, there is so much more to life out there. You need to get out of your house more often.
2006-06-20 05:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Darryl E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋