I met this guy the other day, saturday to be exact, we went out on Sunday and had fun. I guess im a real pretty female bc he couldnt keep his paws off of me. I dont think he's a jerk or anything but Im used to waiting to have sex. We didnt have sex on Sunday simply bc i was on my period. But on thursday we going out to eat and i know he's gonna want to have sex bc he told me he wants to get a hotel room. I want sex too. But I also want him to stay around longer. I'm afraid that if I put out too soon, he will leave soon after. What u think?
2006-06-20 05:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by la la 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if it is me...lol Could be that is all he wants. I would make him wait and if he stays then its cool but if he bolts then good riddence.
2006-06-20 05:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by TERRY S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying so much. Go with the flow. If it is meant to be, it is meant to be. But let me ask you something. Why a hotel room? Why not your place or his place? Are you hiding something from him or is he hiding something from you?.....Never EVER I mean ever have sex in a hotel room when you know damn well that you have a place of your own and he has a place of his own. Safe the money, and maybe some other time yall can go watch a movie or get a bite to eat. Think about it girl
2006-06-20 05:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely wait!
if he really likes you, and is going to stick around, he wont mind waiting a little longer to get to know you. If he doesn't want to get to know you & only wants sex. He should be moving on pretty quickly. Who wants a guy like that hanging around you anyway?
Of course if you don't like him long-term, then yea hotel sex is great!
2006-06-20 05:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Bgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing is honey...if we doesn't value you that much then YEAH he will leave if you put out too soon. However, if he actually does care for you then I don't think he would leave and would enjoy the physical intimacy. However, one could also make the point that if he REALLY did love you then he wouldn't mind waiting for sex either?....Hope this helps! :)
2006-06-20 05:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Wallstreey$$Maker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant tell you if its right or wrong but there are people who meet for the first time then a few hours later the bed is getting a workout ok its what you think ok
2006-06-20 05:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, woman like one night stands, but honestly i have been there and if you only want some dick, then go for it. but if you like him and want something more serious wait at least a month becuase he will think that you are easy, and replace you easily.
2006-06-20 05:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's all over you with his hands, he's not respecting you! how does it feel to be USED? you know what, your going to end up being a "story" he tells his buddies over a beer someday! End it and find someone who will respect you.
2006-06-20 05:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out. Make sure he is in it for you.
2006-06-20 05:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes !!! he might think of u as slut...that u sleep around with anyone !!!!!!! soo dont just give it up...make him wait around...!
2006-06-20 05:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by caveman25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tramp. You already know what he wants, wake up.
2006-06-20 05:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋