Some times after telling my boyfreind that I love him a lot i dont know i feel less about my self and think he will be not the same since he knowns I love him?
2006-06-20 04:43:26 · 12 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he says it back i guess its good, how long have u been with him, its only be like a month or something then its a lil creepy. but maybe he's just a jerk
2006-06-20 04:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck'n Da Deuce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will not be the same because he knows you love him?
Like you think he will love you less or stop loving you? It is a normal fear for most girls but if you really think about it it doesn't make sense. Perhaps you shouldn't say it too early on into the relationship, but if you really mean it then how can it be wrong?
If he dislikes you for it, then perhaps he's a jerk and you shouldn't be together.
That is unless you consider yourself too good to be going out with him and consider it demeaning to love him. In which case you're the jerk.
2006-06-20 06:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look mamaz, Don't tell a man you love him first, wait till he says it. Alot of men get scared if they even hear the marriage word. Don't be all up on him being emotional, I've seen too many females get hurt that way. If you tell him you love him and he don't respond.. Perhaps he needs more time to think whether he truly loves you back or not. But respect and love the fact that he is not gonna lie and say he loves you if he don't, cuz that means that he is real.
2006-06-20 04:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to tell a guy how much you care about him, the key is to make sure he feels the same way about you. If the feelings are mutual, then there should be no doubt within you. But if you're getting uneasy vibes from making this statement then, I suggest you re-evaluate the reasons why you're feeling that way.
2006-06-20 04:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would feel on top of the world to hear these words from my significant other. It gives me a feeling of self worth and that I have a special partner, someone with whom to share experiences, good and bad, and...well, it's just a good thing.
And it's commendable that you're open enough to express yourself so well. He should appreciate it.
2006-06-20 04:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should say it early in the relationship. Sometimes men have this thing about them that makes them feel superior when they know you love them. They kind if treat you as if they could do and say anything because they know you love them. in other words she's not going anywhere, she love's me. You know?
When you've gotten deeper into the relationship and he say's he love you....It's OK
2006-06-20 04:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not o.k to tel him i personal feel that if u should tel him he will use it as a disadvantaged and have that over u. Must feel away after telling him because letting someone know how much you love him is going to take out a part of your life.You can tel him that u love him but try your best not to show it a lot.
2006-06-20 04:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by babo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes its a good thing and sometimes its not... when you tell a guy you really love him a lot he thinks that he has you were he wants you to be and then he'll take advantage of that. sometimes its a good thing because he'll know that you have good feelings towards him so yeah that what i think
2006-06-20 04:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by cherry&cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is...does your boyfriend feel the same...about you?
Does he tell you he loves you?
Is this a "committed" relationship?
Let's hope your not headed for a big heartache.
2006-06-20 04:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by swampfox conservative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you dont want to lose a friend, but you cant help feeling the way you feel about him either. as long as he doesnt have a girlfriend, why not go for it. if he says no and you still have a friendship with him despite him not feeling the same way then its worth it. you only live once.
2016-03-15 11:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋