I met Sean at work about 7 years ago. He had the most beautiful eyes which I could feel go through my soul . Within a short time we became very close friends and then a couple. Our relationship was filled with so much love and affection for each other. Sean was technically still married and his wife wasn't aware of our relationship. We both agreed we should wait to tell her until after they divorced so the proceedings would go smooth. He said it would take about a year. That one year turned into 6 years. We were getting along great best friends and lovers I never trusted or loved anyone more in my life. I rearranged my whole life to start a new one with him. We were supposed to get married and move to Florida at the end of that year. I got a call telling me that his wife found out about our relationship and she was going to prevent him from seeing their daughter. He needed me to lie to her for him and I said I couldn't do it. That day he ended our relationship and said he is sorry.
2006-06-20 04:37:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He resign from his position at work and has never looked back. Everyday I wake up and he is the first thing on my mind. I have tried counceling but they tell me that I have to move on. I just don't know how. I am so hurt and still so in love with him. I have never tried to contact him. I just can't move on and be happy. It has been 8 months since the break. Can someone tell me how to feel better?
2006-06-20 04:42:33 · update #1
Time will ease your pain, it isn't something you can't change over night, it took me 3 years to finally forget about a past love. We shared a lot of things and to get over home it is hard, I was married for two of the three years it took me to forget about him, it is part of the normal healing process. But remember, nothing is gonna change your situation. Life doesn't stop and wait for you to live it it keeps on going, so you are only missing out. The best remedy is to keep on living. It was better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.
2006-06-20 04:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your broken heart. You really brought this on yourself, cause first of all a married man that knows he can use you for extra pleasure will never leave his wife. Think about it he has too much to lose when it comes to his family. Married men try to encourage single women to fall for the lies like he is unhappy with his wife or he is going to leave his wife. In reality, the married man is just selfish and wants all that he can get. A devil that's all. You got played and the worst part.... YOU LOVE ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE! LEAVE THE MARRIED MEN ALONE!!!
2006-06-20 11:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by telltonieroberts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot stop loving someone, I've tried. Everytime I talk to her I want her again, but the past is past. Let things be, and eventually the aches will not bother you as they do now.
2006-06-20 11:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by eternaldragon899 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋