what do i do about the fighting with my mother and brother?

Question

i have been told by my mother and brother that i married the wrong person,i am a piece of crap and i always have a bad attitude.we are fighting again over something stupid, food. they tricked me into eating something i would not have ate if i had known what it was. and they knew i wouldnt of ate it so they manipulated lied and tricked me. they crossed my boundries.then when i told them i didnt appriciate it they called me names,screamed at me and told me to get out because i ruin everything. i feel very betrayed and hurt so what do i do now? in the past our fights have turned violent and phsyical because my brother drinks alot,and my mother is always defending him. please help i feel like im loosing my sanity.

Answer 1

go to your doctor i think you are in depression too, you need not to listen to them. they have no right to suffer you. ask your doctor for counselling it will help you. but if you dont mind ,please, you did not mention your dad and relationship with your husband.

Answer 2

You need to just steer clear of this bunch of weird, sick a$$ mutha fvckas! Tricking you into eating something you don't want to eat is just plain wrong! Why would you set yourself up for this kind of treatment? Change your phone number and stay away from them. If they bother you, you may have to take out a restraining order against them.

Answer 3

Why do you subject yourself to this kind of treatment? Although you did not mention your age I figured that if you are old enough to be married then you are old enough to move out on your own. If not, then you need to find another relative to live with. You need to remove yourself from the situation as soon as possible by what ever means possible.

Answer 4

Stay wit yo man and some friends and jus get away from your family honey, some people jus don't appreciate what they got till it's gone. I learned the hard way, I've had to get away from part of my family too. I was sexually assaulted, and u know who my dad got mad at? Me. Someone tried to rob my crib, who did my dad get mad at? Me. Sometimes I'd wonder if I was jus insane..if I hadn't got away from my dad I would still have my judgement on thangs messed up like it used to be.

God bless~hope thangs work out for tha better
Joyce/Travieza

Answer 5

You're only option is to opt out of a relationship with them.
You could see if they would go to family counseling with you - but I doubt they will.
You do not need to subject yourself to the kind of abuse they put you through. There are a lot of people that do not have a relationship with members of their family for those reasons.

Answer 6

GET OUT of that situation!!! Get a job and get your own place. It sounds to me like your family needs some help. If you already live on your own, stop going around your mother and brother. End of problem.

Answer 7

Save your sanity and stay away from these fools! Why put yourself in the company of people who dont respect your or your decision. I dont care if its family or not, EVERYONE is entitled to a life and to make their own damn decisions AND be respected at the same time. If they can't or wont respect you, stay away from them until they grow up.

Answer 8

Even though they are your family you should stay away from these losers permanently. Sounds like they are way too far gone to ever change and like they don't love you at all (sorry to say). Almost sounds like Cinderella and the wicked stepmother.

Answer 9

its not much u can do but.....if u are the oldest u can try to talk to Ur brother to help him understand that he is wrong an that god is looking down on what hes doing which is being disrespectful to Ur mom an he can go to hell for that cos that is some thing that god disapprove of

Answer 10

If your living with them..move...if you have a place of your own...keep your distance from such negativity.