Is it wrong to love a friend that hurt u verabally not physically, My friend was mean to me but i cant help loving him anything abou thim makes me smile i love how we talk all the time i love how we so much in common, i love how we watch movies together. Should i be feeling this way.
GOD bless you.
2006-06-20 04:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by Jetta C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
abuse is abuse regardless if it's verbal or physical.....you must have pretty low self esteem or self respect to allow someone to do that to you......
2006-06-20 04:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurts you, verbally abuse you, being mean to you but loves to go with you to the movies... he is a genuine jckass!
from my point, it is only you who loves him. it doesn't go the other way around. yes, your friend might be in love... but only to himself, and definitely not with you.
i don't know you, i don't have anything against you. but i do know you are in trouble. i just want to help. dump him, lady!! he is not the guy for you, coz i could see, he does not respect you at all.
not even your husband has the right to verbally abuse youm so that goes with him too, don't you think? take care.
2006-06-20 11:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him know he hurt you. I don't think it is good to wait. If you are honest the feelings won't build up and you will always be friends.
2006-06-20 11:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help but love a person with alot of attributes you like... you should confront him that you were hurt because of his verbal abuse...then i hope he will see the error of his ways.... good luck =)
2006-06-20 11:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but tell him to stop hurting you verabally your a person with feelings not some sounding board for him to say sh*t about you
2006-06-20 11:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong at all, that just shows the you are a really good person
2006-06-20 11:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE him with all of yourself, love in Jesus, let your love be perfect. and make him love Jesus through you. let not your love be possessive, let not your love be self centred, grow in love as you love one another love your God, and love your neighbour.
JESUS LOVES YOU
2006-06-20 11:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody says things they don't mean has he apologized?is so then yes it fine to feel this way if he has not then you better make him...
2006-06-20 11:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by freak_on_a_leash_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋