Ladies! Why is it so hard for some of you to ask a guy/man out?
Is it because you think that it's a mans place to ask, or is there another reason.Please answer seriously.
2006-06-20 04:18:30 · 25 answers · asked by brooklynbornson 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people are raised to believe it's the man's job to do the asking, as well as the driving, the paying, and the initiating of intimacy. I think women need to step up more, though. There are so many women I know that complain about how they can't find a great guy, but they won't ask that guy they know, just "because"... It's crazy. We as women need to be more responsible for our own happiness and go after what we want and deserve.
2006-06-20 04:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard because the fear of rejection and heaven knows what else. I do think it's a mans place to ask at sometimes because most girls like it when a man asks them out, but I think it's harder for a girl to take rejection than a man because men act soo tough that it doesn't seem like it would hurt them that much. Because I have trouble asking boys out. If I write a note to the guy I want to ask out what do I get a mean look and a kick in the ***. Then I get a NO on the note back. If guys wouldn't be soo harsh maybe we would try to ask you out. Will you go out with me?? Just a joke!!
2006-06-20 11:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by ShyGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was the way women are raised, The man makes the date , and the man makes the call. I am guilty of that. I will admit it. I wouldn't ask a man , nor call a man in the beginning of a relationship. and after reading your question, i thought dang why wouldn't i ???? All i can come up with as why i never did was , it was the way i was raised. I am answering in all honesty.
2006-06-20 11:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually shy ladies feel that a man should asked the questions. me on the other hand, will come right out and ask if he's the right guy. not all the ladies on this earth are to scared to ask a guy out
2006-06-20 11:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jessicca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know - maybe we were kind of raised that way. Even now moms will tell daughters "let HIM call you - don't chase him" so that is part of it. I think everyone has a bit of a fear of rejection too - it hurts to be told no. All go through that.
2006-06-20 11:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just unusual to some girls. Personally, I don't have a problem with it. But I am nervous about doing so. For example, what if I try to ask you out, and you laugh in my face? That's embarrasing to us. That's why it's so hard for us.
2006-06-20 11:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women think it is the man's place to do the asking. Also, I think women really fear rejection.
2006-06-20 11:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like u guys we get nervous like i want to ask a guy out but i am so nervous about doing that fear of rejection or fear that the guy may not like you just like you we have fears and are heart racing when we want to call you just like yours does.
GOD bless you.
2006-06-20 15:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jetta C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i have a bf secondly i will not ask coz maybe he tell no to me or maybe he just say yes and then late make fun of me but my elder say that always love some one who love u not whom u love so if a boy love me so he should ask me out so i know that he will always be there when i need him i hope this had help u out :)
2006-06-20 11:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think man should be the starter! I don't like the girls who will hit on men. But I don't mind to kiss him first.
2006-06-20 11:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kuy * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋