I haven't had a single date in 5 months. Now all the sudden, I meet 3 great men w/ good potential in the same freakin week! Why does it always come in tidal waves? Anyways, I normally don't date more than one guy at a time, but I couldn't say no to any of these guys b/c after all, I'm single and I don't know which one I like the best cuz I just met them! I'm HORRIBLE at juggling these things. What am I gonna do if I decide to only date one exclusively? How do I avoid hurting the other 2? Should I tell them up front that I'm dating others or just wait until they ask?
2006-06-20 02:54:21 · 13 answers · asked by indie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you're not in a commited relationship with any of them, it's okay to date other people. It's always best to be open and upfront. Let each one know that you are interested and think that they are a nice person that you would like to get to know better but that you are seeing other people. When, and if, you are ready for a commited relationship with someone, then STOP dating others and really focus on that person. Also don't require a commitment from someone if you're ready to make the same commitment. Treat them as you would like someone to treat you - honestly and fairly. Good luck!
2006-06-20 03:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by schnauzermom 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds confuse....
Well have to say that the question
How do I avoid hurting the other 2? is wrong..
Question is also not which one you like best to date exclusively..
I guess question should be..
How do you going to avoid hurting the one, when he will come to know you were dating with two more guy when he was proud with his love for you.
Hope you got answers of you questions
Question should be....
Who will be the guy, going to love you as you are...knowing every aspect of your life...accept you whole hearted
2006-06-20 03:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by dhin_tak_dhin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the way i look at it, it ain't good. from the way i look at it (and maybe, so with a lot others), you will be in a big mess. i know you don't care if people will be talking about you on this, And i do understand you are enjoying it... and so are these guys!
yep, situations like these come in tidal waves. even a surfer would choose a good wave to surf, and he does it one at the time.
don't mess around with dating. it may hurt them, but it would also might hurt you! you might end up with the guy you would choose the least. CAREFUL!
2006-06-20 03:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine and quite normal to be dating/seeing multiple guys. They should know that they're not exclusive until the two of you discuss seeing each other EXCLUSIVELY. We prefer that you'd only date us but you need to make sure you find the right one.
2006-06-20 03:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by kong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to hurt anyone, then you will have to be totally upfront with them. Tell them now or regret it later. You might loose a good one though cause he does not like a three timer. He might be he one to keep. If any of them get jealous and pissed, then you learned that early, so dump them. This could get interesting.
2006-06-20 02:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to hurt the to other two, you have to make your choose, because in the end you will hurt your self.
try to understand who's the best for you and say Goodbye to the others
2006-06-20 03:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation to you with 3 guys. I stopped ringing them, but one of them I had to tell him that I'd met someone, as he won't take no for an answer.
2006-06-20 03:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by trackie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-05-30 08:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really havent made any commitment to any of these guys think of it as sampling juggle them till you still have one and bingo
2006-06-20 03:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them know that you are dating up front! you are single so date around
2006-06-20 03:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋