but i thin the one i was dating in ghana is not going to date any one else than me.but i also think i love the one in spain than the one in ghana.my parents also want me to go aheard with the one in spain, why i think is because i am in spain and don't know the actual day i will be going to my country.
2006-06-20 02:45:53 · 25 answers · asked by theresa ghansah 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Baby.....it ain't love !!!
Don't be so quick to 'fall' for guys !!!
2006-06-20 02:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by aBranch@60-WA ,<>< 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to be the hardest decision you will probably ever have to make but just remember its your decision and no one else's. What these two people mean to you they can not possibly mean the same to friends or family. If these two boys feel the same about you then in the end one will understand why you chose the other one, whether it be because you are close to him since you live in the same country or because your heart lies back in your home country of Ghana. Take your time this is a decision you don't want to take lightly, the rest of your life is waiting for this decision. I wish you the best with this so good luck.
2006-06-20 02:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tigger7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend had throiugh this kinda stuff...she had three guys behind her at the same time and on all of'em she did have crush. So what I adviced her was- I asked to write down all the likes and dislikes of all the three guyz and then weigh them up accordingly...so we booted the one with lotsa dislikes. Then there was two left....now it was completly on her and she decided with who she thought was making sense and saw a good future ahead. I think u should also sit and try noting down what u like and dislike about these two and even then if you are not able to decided...I would always say listen to your "PARENTS"...they are the God that we see!! They'll always advice only the good things to you because they love you truly than anyone else in this whole wide world.
2006-06-20 02:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by ~d0g5 aR3 p30pl3 t0o~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are IN LOVE with 2 people then you are not really in love with either one. When you are in love you can not love any other. Think on that. Choose one to pursue and let the other go. It is not fair on a person who may atually be in love with you to think they are the only one.
2006-06-20 02:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by fancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot possibly be in love becuase you don't know what love is this is love ...
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
It always protects and trusts you cannot protect and trust if you are violating someones trust and you are nto protecting the integrity of your relationship. You are also self seeking by having two. You have no idea what love is you have two sex meat partners.
2006-06-20 02:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u too love them u do 1 thing just marry one person keep another guy as ur step
2006-06-20 02:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by ranjith t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think spain one is best for u since ur parents l ike him or choose the best that really deeply and truely loves u
2006-06-20 02:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by MixedPrincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask this question in the relationship category unless you want to know how to wear your hair on your date with whichever boyfriend you pick.
2006-06-20 02:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat....it's hard to choose.So just keep seeing them both and let life sort it out on it's own.Eventually something will happen,fate will intervene.
2006-06-20 02:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Timothy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should pick the one that pleases u more and is the nicest 2 u
2006-06-20 03:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by lil_bad_kitty_4884 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love with either of them your just in lust over them ....do then a favor and get over it...wait till your a mature person to be fair to others...you must be young so don't be fooled you will know love when its there
2006-06-20 02:48:30 · answer #11 · answered by melissa c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋